Would you trade stability for growth?
If you had a chance for a positive change but one that would mean letting go of what you have now, would you take it? And what would guide your decision?
I guess it would depend on what the positive change was.
@thoughtfulmomma That's understandable ^-^ I wish taking chances or making changes came with a little promise that things would work out 💙
I have to consider about it (a lot, iI'm not sure about this a lot). Of course my heart guides me for action ❤️ I prefer doing than thinking
@Minionn Doing rather than thinking, that's nice :) Overthinking can close so many doors. The heart often knows more than it lets on.
I hope following your heart always leads you in the right direction 💙
I would take a chance with growth. I've been stuck for years now and I think it would be worth it to get out of my mental prison 🙃
@Tonyk1988 I hear you 💙 No matter the challenges, a brave step forward always feels worth it. I'm sorry to hear that you're feeling stuck, stagnation can feel so heavy. But I really admire how you're willing to open doors to new opportunities ^-^
Forward !!! ❤️
@BlueDarkAurora
I would take the chance for growth because I’ve been learning to grow everyday, so why not continue to grow some more?
@blueHuman7020 That's so wonderful 💙 I hope you keep growing and find new milestones to celebrate, all while feeling proud of everything you've already achieved.
@BlueDarkAurora
Awwwwwww!!! Thank youuuu and I wish and hope the same for you too!!!!!!! 💙💙💙
@blueHuman7020 aw thank you!! :D
Hi, I am new here. I am not sure what I would do. I made a huge change 4 years ago and am still hurting from it. For now, I seek stability. Thank you for allowing me to join..
SincerePenny1023
@sincerePenny1023 Hi, welcome to 7 cups 💙
I'm really sorry that the change caused you so much hurt. Sometimes we try our best but things just don't work out the way we hoped. I hope you find stability and so much happiness in your life soon. Thank you for taking the time to respond ^-^
@BlueDarkAurora
i not sure of anything today!
@calmNorth3485 💙
I really am need help with leaving !!! Trauma bonded
@calmNorth3485 Hi, what's going on? How are you feeling today? 💙
@BlueDarkAurora a positive change🤔🤔 perhaps going outside of the carehome. Here at the care home they take the resident's out on day trips especially during the summer, and they go swimming and stuff. They even host bingo nights and stuff here and a summer bbq where they invite the other residents family, it's always a huge event here 💖 but I need to keep a low profile and so I never join in on these things. But there are some activities and places I can go/do safely. It would mean I have to get over fear/anxiety. But one day my dream is to be a explorer 😁 so I've been trying to use that as motivation💖💖
@Tinywhisper11
Awww Tiny, I know it's so scary because you've said this before.
But i would love to hear about a daytrip you went on.
You are like a precious flower with some unopened buds. I think if you went out, those bud would just bloom and burst into such a beauty you only imagine now.
I love you. 💖 Do it Do it Do it 😁
@IsayUncle awww thanks uncle John💖💖 I am trying it's sooo tempting especially when they take a day trip to the seaside, but I keep backing out at the last second🙁 but I'll keep trying 💖 I love you 💗
@Tinywhisper11,
Ohhhhh, the seaside, salty air, seagull, crashing waves.....
splish splash where wheelchairs and waves have a fun crash! 😁
@Tinywhisper11 You're a secret ninja, the bravest one at that :D 💖 I hope you get to explore all the beautiful places in the world and everywhere your heart leads you.
@BlueDarkAurora thanks sweetie 💖💖 I love you 💗
@Tinywhisper11
Ive always aimed for stability ... but then life happens the way it is meant to... and ends up giving me growth 😄
@BlueDarkAurora
@Creamyyy I can relate ^^ I hope you're able to maintain or atleast find a way to recreate your stability even with all the new changes you're navigating 💙
No. I’ve been fighting against change for years now, it’s terrifying.
@Mia6600 That's understandable. I hope your stability continues to be a safe and comfortable for you, always 💙
Thanks❤️