Moments in Life
If you could relive any moment in your life, would you? Which one would it be?
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@amiablePeace77
If you could relive any moment in your life, would you? Which one would it be?
Only if I could change the circumstances would I do it over. I would change the family I was adopted into and my birth father would be my dad. Never got to meet him before he was killed.
@amiablePeace77 I would relive the day I saw Harry Styles while having floor seats. That was one of the best nights of my life!💛
@fruityPond7887
I'm happy for you that you had this opportunity!
@amiablePeace77 Thank you so much Peace! What moment would you relive again? :)
@fruityPond7887
The day when I got my first puppy, he was adorable when I called him and he was running towards me with a wiggling tail.
@amiablePeace77
Awww. Are you planning to have a dog in the future?
I believe one day we meet with the people and dogs, cats, loved ones again one day.
Oh, I so agree. I still mourn the loss of a cat in 2007.
She didn't die (to my knowledge).. I was in the hospital and the person that was feeding her left my door open and she was never seen again.
Makes me tear up whenever I think about it
@kala
I hope one day I will have one or two dogs again. But rn it's not possible.
@amiablePeace77
Why not?
@amiablePeace77 Aww that's a memory you will have forever and it was love at first sight!!💕
@amiablePeace77
Hm. Difficult question. Probably when I slept in my grandma’s house. She had a huge bed and very huge covers and blankets with feather. Once in my life I felt safe. And she had a big bath tub and it was so much fun.
@kala
It must have felt so cozy! Nice that you kept such lovely memories.
If I could, I would revive those times I spent with my granddad. I'll treasure them in my heart forever.
@hardworkingBeechwood6063
He must have been a wonderful person.
@amiablePeace77
He was, indeed
@oa4me I am so sorry to hear about the unexpected loss of your fur baby. My childhood dog passed away unexpectedly the week of my high school graduation. It was June and my grandmother accidentally left her outside and forgot her and she passed from heat stroke. That was the worst day of my life, so I know how you feel and you are not alone.
@fruityPond7887
My heart goes out to you. I hope you could come to terms with what happened and could forgive you grandmother.
@amiablePeace77 It was hard and took some time, but she is still my grandmother and I knew she never meant it. Everything is okay now ❤️ Thank you so much for your support!
"The moment" thought about reliving a moment again "to spend it as it is."
Moments are chewed well and swallowed deeply into the intestines.
but here, I see it's the "moment," not "the memory." Because you are always living over memories, whether they are likely or unlikely. Memories may bring irresistible temporary happiness, sadness, or gore.
But "moments" were surreal to your mind. When you want to relive it, you are reversing the food that has already been swallowed. Our body and mind will suffer; we will vomit, and we may be nauseated.
I know it's a question regarding the moment you enjoyed, and it's just a small desire. But we can't break with reality. The moment you live in right now is real. Otherwise, it will collapse the system, and whether you want to relive the happy or bad moments, it doesn't matter to reality, aka nature.
Keep eating good food, minimise using machines, and move your physique. It will improve digestion, and your body won't feel down or like a sloth. If your body stays happy, then our decisions will be wiser. Then we don't even have to think about these things. We will be living in the surreal, where we don't even have to think about reliving the moments, as you are already living happily.
All the best; enjoy.
@SoulPitstop
Very wise deduction and very explanatory. I think this is a form of being Mindful. I love the way you painted a visual picture❤️
I am straying a little from the direction of the question, because I don’t have a desire to relive any moment of my life before this week. But I do miss the companionship of pets. I am not in a situation where It would be feasible for me to adopt one but the affection they give is comforting.
@Iamwhoiamwhoami
I can relate to your feeling of missing the companionship of a pet Iamwhoimawhoami, pets can be such good friends and listen so well 😊. I hope one day you will get one again.
@amiablePeace77. Thank you for your kind words. I am thankful that you have been a part of my life
@Iamwhoiamwhoami
I feel honored if my presence here helped you!
@amiablePeace77 your presence here has helped me and I believe a lot of other people here also. I am very grateful you’re here, and willing to put up with my negativity. Thank you.
@Iamwhoiamwhoami
You just made my day with your kind words! Thank you. I'm not seeing you as negative as you do. 💙