Trust issues
How am I able to start trusting my husband? Me and my husband have been through a lot and I've done a lot of stuff to him but he never done anything how can I start trusting him.
@courageousLunch8341
It must have been hard for you both in the past. I'm sorry to hear that all the challenges you faced made you lose your trust in your husband, but I can see that you want to make this marriage work again by reaching out here! Regaining trust again can take some time and I believe that talking in an open and honest way is the best approach to heal a relationship. It might also help to talk to a marriage counselor if you both agree to it.
@courageousLunch8341
Learning to trust is like riding a bike ...... It is hard to do without practice and the acceptance that you may fall off a few times.
So many seem to think the relationship will be fine when you have trust. Trust is like a muscle it must be used to become stronger and flexible. Does he still trust you? You admitted you did things to him how is his belief in you?
Well, first of all,talk to him. Ask for his view of the situation.
If he doesn't do anything to make him a trusting person so, how can you trust him?
Inbox me to discuss it in detail. I'm a listener.