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Check-in: Sunday 21, March 2021 - Trauma Support Community

User Profile: WelcomeToChat
WelcomeToChat March 21st, 2021


Hello Community ! The topic I bring today is "Compassion here and now."

We see Compassion in practice all the time, all around this Community, each time you answer a post by a fellow member, giving advice, support, and love.

Compassion is reaching out to someone who suffers, and sharing their pain, with the purpose of alleviating it. You consider the other person as a fellow human being, just like yourself, with the strengths and vulnerabilities that are the mark of our human condition.

Compassion is a feeling, that is expressed through compassionate behaviors, like reaching out to a fellow member of the Community. It can be also practiced as an aspiration, for people we can’t communicate with, a valuable practice in itself.

It has to be stressed that Compassion involves considering the other person as an equal. A fellow human being, as valuable and vulnerable as ourselves.

Feeling sorry for someone we consider inferior (“Poor guy!”) is not compassion but pity.

As said, this Community is a space of Compassion

Compassion is its main pillar, that what sustains and keeps this Community alive.

Here Members empathize and take the initiative to help each other. Compassion and proactivity are this Community's sources of vitality and strength. This is what makes it so valuable for all of us, and for people that come to us for help.


How practice Compassion in this Community ?

- By browsing regularly our forums and answering threads and posts by fellow members. Add your thoughts even if there are already answers to the main post.

- By checking the “Newest” and “Needs Reply” threads, to see if there is some in which we can add our answer. (To see the “Newest” and “Needs reply” threads go HERE and Sort by those criteria.)

- By posting informative threads about topics that might be helpful to other fellow members. Sharing knowledge and things we learned along our healing path.


Questions

- How do you feel today ?

- Write a message to the Members of this Community that might be needing your support the most right now.


I look forward to your comments, and wish you all the best !

Marcelo.


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March 21st, 2021

@WelcomeToChat

Hiya Marcelo how gos?

Ima doing ok thanks.

Hiya fellow members, its pawsome to see all of you! I hope your having a pawsome day! Hang tough we'll get through this together

💖 ur friend 🔥

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User Profile: WelcomeToChat
WelcomeToChat OP March 21st, 2021

@Fireskye13

Hi Skye !

Thank you for participating in this Check-In !

I am very glad you are feeling well today !

I like that you stress that "we'll get through this together"

That's waht a Community is all about !

Keep in youch !

All the best !

Marcelo.

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WelcomeToChat OP March 21st, 2021
User Profile: honestLand773
honestLand773 March 22nd, 2021

@WelcomeToChat

Help

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User Profile: WelcomeToChat
WelcomeToChat OP March 22nd, 2021

@honestLand773

Sure !

Tell me !

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User Profile: honestLand773
honestLand773 March 22nd, 2021

@WelcomeToChat

It ok to here?

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User Profile: WelcomeToChat
WelcomeToChat OP March 24th, 2021

@honestLand773

Sure !

You can also leave me a message and arrange for a one to one chat here:

https://www.7cups.com/@WelcomeToChat

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User Profile: Ghxstie
Ghxstie March 22nd, 2021

I feel a mix of emotions. Between sadness, fear, and anger. My trauma has been on my mind all day whenever I’m alone and now my body hurts. Like, there’s an aching feeling all over.

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March 22nd, 2021

@Ghxstie

That sucks, I'm sorry to hear that your in pain and thinking about your trauma?

Is there anything u want to talk about? We'd be happy to support u!

Hang tough stay pawsome ur friend 🔥

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User Profile: Rebekahwriter13
Rebekahwriter13 March 22nd, 2021

- How do you feel today ? I am doing pretty good actually.

- Write a message to the Members of this Community that might be needing your support the most right now.

take things one day at a time. . . rome wasn't built in a day. Just focus on the now

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User Profile: WelcomeToChat
WelcomeToChat OP March 24th, 2021

@Rebekahwriter13

Dear Rebekah:

It's great that you feel well, after so much emotional and physical pain.

You are right that patience, and being in the moment are key for coping.

All the best !

Marcelo

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User Profile: Rebekahwriter13
Rebekahwriter13 March 27th, 2021

@WelcomeToChat

I have learned that you never as for patience, as life and fate will put you in situation in which you have to be patient.
I also learned that true patience comes with age.

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User Profile: FoolsSelf
FoolsSelf March 24th, 2021

This is the group I most wanted to not join but the one I most need. I may say hi later.

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User Profile: WelcomeToChat
WelcomeToChat OP March 24th, 2021

@FoolsSelf

You are most welcome to this Community !

There are very good, caring people here, that will really understand you.

Post in the Forums you find most appropriate for the topic, any feeling or thought you want to share, as it comes to your mind.

You will always be treated with care and respect, and get feedback from fellow Members with much experience and knowledge.

I look forward to your further participation.

All the best !

Marcelo

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