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Traumatic Experiences Community Daily Check-in Saturday 27th of October, 2018

User Profile: redmark
redmark October 27th, 2018

We have made it through one more week. You have made it through an other week! I mean, how amazing is that? You are doing such an amazing job and I am really proud of you for it! heart

How are you feeling today? :)

How was this week for you? Do you have anything we would like to share with us here? :)


Lately I have been actually delving more into philosphical topics and the hows and whys of feelings, not my feelings, but just in general and as much as it is an interesting topic it can be a really hard one. On this journy of mine one fo the thing that helped me a lot was the Dictionary of Obscure sorrows, which, I have had mentioned earlier as well.

There is one definition that really stood out for me of many other great words and definitions there lately and I keep revisiting and I thought I would share it with you today. This word and definition is "Socha".
>Click here to watch the video about it<, if you want it is really well produced. :)

I have many insecurities and they can really cause me a hard time and I think it part of human nature that we do compare ourselves to others and it can often make me feel even less of a "great" person. This, however, is really eye opening to me. I mean, this just resonates within me and makes me feel that I am not alone being insecure, having hard times and just a lot of doubts even if people around me seem to have that perfect life.

I know many of you have similar doubts as well and, if nothing else, I want you to know that you are not alone. We may have been through different things, you and me, and I know I may seem like this always happy and caring person but there are many, countless insecurities and doubt behind it and you are not any less of a person then I am or the next person. It is just part of being human, there is nothing wrong with you because of it! heart

What do you think about "Socha"? Have you experienced it earlier?


Do not ever forget how strong and just amazing you are! I believe in you and you are doing an amazing job! heart

Of course all of the questions are just optional as well as the hug above, if you want to just sit here with us you are welcome as well! :)

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User Profile: betterchoices
betterchoices October 30th, 2018

Hey! This is my first post, my Path told me to do it. Hope I have the right idea. My week was hard but I did it, and it's a new week now, so even more chances!

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User Profile: redmark
redmark OP October 30th, 2018

Hey there @betterchoices *offering safe hugs*

Welcome here! We are really glad to have you here with us! heart

I know this has to be a new and hard situation for you but I am really proud of you making this step and reaching out to us here, you are doing a really good job! :)
I am sorry to hear that you have had such a hard week before but I am really happy to see your positive attitude and I do really hope you will have a good week now and if there is anything we may be able to help you with we are here for you anytime so feel free to reach out to us anytime ^-^

Stay awesome! heart

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User Profile: betterchoices
betterchoices October 30th, 2018

@redmark

User Profile: betterchoices
betterchoices October 30th, 2018

@redmark This truly made me smile and feel supported-- THANK you!

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User Profile: LilTiger
LilTiger October 30th, 2018

Hi. Um, I normally don't post anything, but this past week has been pretty rough. I had a traumatic experience when I was younger and the chats aren't really always a safe area so I just thought I would talk here and I guess just see if anyone will read my words. Its been difficult lately and no one can relate to having a traumatic experience so I'm feeling pretty alone. And yeah, I guess that's it. I'll probably just delete this soon after but whatever.

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User Profile: redmark
redmark OP October 30th, 2018

Hey there @LilTiger *offering safe hugs*

We are so glad to have you here with us! heart

I can imagine it had to be really hard to come here and open up like this here but I am really proud of you for being so strong and doing so! :)
I can imagine that living with a trauma like that can be really hard and I want you to know that if you would ever like to talk about it or just come here and sit around with us for the time being you are always welcome to do so, we are all here for you and together we can get through this! heart
Also, we have pillow forts as an option as well if you ever feel like just hiding from the world! ^-^

Stay strong and awesome! heart

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User Profile: incompl
incompl November 1st, 2018

@redmark

How was this week for you? Do you have anything we would like to share with us here? :)

to be honest I'm feeling very bummed out about a recent break up. It's making me question myself and my sanity

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User Profile: redmark
redmark OP November 2nd, 2018

Hey there @incompl *offering safe hugs*

I am really sorry for my late answer here, I have had some random and busy days with work lately but I am really happy to see you around here and hear from you! heart

I know that break-ups can be really hard and honestly....I am really bad with them as well but...it gets better...or it did for me anyways with some time and until then we are here for you if there is anything we may be able to help you with or you would just like to went. I mean, you are not alone in this and together we can get through this - or I believe in it anyways and I do believe in you as well! :)

Stay strong and awesome! heart

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