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Advice for leaving abusive and controlling mom

User Profile: Shastafame
Shastafame March 6th, 2017

My mom is abuser. I'm 33 years old. I has become edvident that my mom is abusive. The control is getting worse. I have decided I have want to leave. The only option I have is to move away. Family is not an option. I will need income based housing or public housing. I need seal. I know there are ways I could get in almost immediately, but I'm not sure how to do it.

My my mom is going to physically come after me. She will rip my phone away and force me into the car. In past she has been physically abusive. She has now resorted to emotional, spiritual, and verbal abuse. She starts drama with other and blames me for it. She accuses me of plotting against her. She suffers from some kind of mental illness.

Inhave decided I want to leave after my mom forced me to come out.

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User Profile: crimsonMelon8700
crimsonMelon8700 March 16th, 2017

It can be hard

User Profile: ambitiousTalker2046
ambitiousTalker2046 July 13th, 2017

My mum is also abusive. Basically she is in total control. She hits me. I am an adult. I am too scared to leave.

User Profile: PinkLemons14
PinkLemons14 December 28th, 2021

Hi, I know this post was years ago. I'm wondering where you are now? I am almost 30, living with parents and sibling. My father has been emotionally abusive forever. Today, I am struggling with having no employment, friends or vehicle I own so I do not have much security that will allow me to move out. I also am in a relationship but I don't think it would work out in the long run, so this leave me feeling anxious. I hope I find support or sense of grounding so that I can move out and live my life happily.