Molester being released from prison
I (19 now) was molested when i was 5, by my uncle. 2 years ago, i finailly told my parents what happened. The rest of my family has no idea of what he did to me, but know he has raped MANY OTHER PEOPLE, INCLUDING HIS SISTER!!! They made us write to him when i was younger, are still incouraging my siblings and I to see him when he gets out. My parents and I have made it very clear we want nothing to do with him. It is still being pushed. They also say my brother(3) acts like my uncle(THE RAPIST). I have asked them not to compare the two numberous times. We no longer talk to that side of my family, but i am worried that they will tell him where we live, and he will show up when he gets out of jail. Anybody delt with family like this? They are all mentally and emotionally abusive, and have been my entire life, but forcing me to see the man who molested, and putting my siblings in a situation with him, my is too far.
@TheLostWeasleyChild
Hey there ❤️ I'm so sorry to hear that this is something you're still facing. No child should ever be forced to be anywhere near their abuser or treat them as family. You and your immediate family are absolutely right to completely refuse their requests. I'm glad to know that you've been able to stay away so far. It might be difficult to handle manipulative extended family members, but keep going and don't give up on doing what's right. Stay safe ❤️ No matter what they do or say, I believe you'll have the courage and strength to hold on to what you know is good and right for yourself and your family ❤️ Take care, and know that this community is always here for you
My dad and my Pa are both in prison they will be out when I am 32 I am 13. Does that scare me? Yeah, a lot. I was the one that called child protection and I remember saying that I didn't want them to do anything if they weren't going to make him go away forever. 25 years isn't forever.
That thought scares me so much some nights that I can't sleep and I have panic attacks. They are both psychopaths. They abused me and my mother and brother in every way imaginable. I am sorry your uncle is getting out of prison soon.
Life isn't much better after reporting it. I wonder if what I did was good enough or if I just made everything worse. But I was 7 and I believed them when they told me he could be gone forever. Again 25 years isn't forever.
