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ending a bad relationship

User Profile: kyles404
kyles404 January 26th, 2015

Today was the day I finally decided to leave an abusive relationship. I have bruises on my arms and some on my leg. But what hurts the most isn?t the physical pain ( I know the bruises will heal) but more of the mental damage that's been done to me.

MY Ex boyfriend would call me ?fat? or ?Stupid? or any variations.

I cried during work today thinking that some of the things he said was true, I know im not ?Fat? and i'm certainly not ?stupid?.

I feel strained now because he was the only person I had been going out with/ hanging out for the last 2 months or so, we would see each other every day and I feel like I had to not only let go of my boyfriend (for my own sake) but my best friend as well.

I just couldn?t take the abuse anymore.

He was arrested today for something stupid so I haven?t had a decent chance to drop the bomb and tell him the news that I never want to see him again.

But on the other hand I don?t actually want to let him go.

I?m stressed out and strained. I was soo attached to him but I need to do whats best for me, did I do the right thing or should I have tried harder somehow to keep this relationship together.

Also what would be the best way to let him know it's over for good?

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User Profile: modestZebra2079
modestZebra2079 January 26th, 2015

Simply text then block him. You don't need someone to say mean things and to physically hurt you. You are unique, you have beauty. You have love for yourself.