I kinda need some help lol
So hey it's us again,
we're sort of co-fronting to write this because we need advise. What do we do if different alters like or have crushes on different people? This is happening to our system right now and we're not sure how to handle it or show these people that we do care for both of them and don't mean to lead them on.
Please let us know your thoughts.
@theFaultInOurStars20
It's natural to have crushes!
It's a healthy part of life.
If you feel conflicted, it's important you both take some time to just navigate things and not vocalise what you are feeling until you have a better understanding of it for yourself 💕💜
lol I might not've made this clear but I have DID so some of my alters have different crushes on different people, and they have definitely vocalized that... I guess I was just wondering how do I like mention that to said crushes without directly outing our system?
I don't really know how to answer this because I don't have DID and I don't know if it's possible but find a way to talk to your alters by writing your feelings and confusion on how to tell your guy's crushes you like them? I don't know if that helps but I'm trying I've never experienced DID or know anyone with DID so I know what it is and all I just don't know what to do and how to comfort or give advice to you and all the others with DID.