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theFaultInOurStars20
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I kinda need some help lol
Trauma Support / by theFaultInOurStars20
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 October 7th, 2025
...See more So hey it's us again,  we're sort of co-fronting to write this because we need advise. What do we do if different alters like or have crushes on different people? This is happening to our system right now and we're not sure how to handle it or show these people that we do care for both of them and don't mean to lead them on. Please let us know your thoughts. 
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I don't know what's going on...
Trauma Support / by theFaultInOurStars20
Last post
 October 7th, 2025
...See more Hello....  My name's Bug and recently we've been disassociating A LOT. We've ton countless hours of research to figure out what's going on with us(I say us because I've sort of taken control because we've had a very stressful day and H((I'm just calling her that)) is about to break down) What I'm sort of asking for is to ask for help. I want to know if we're just crazy or actually going through something that should be checked out professionally. I'm going to list the things that we've been going through down below: * for months H has been feeling as if her emotions were far away or someone else's * she's felt like she's watching a movie or watching someone else live her life * these things became more common after a near fatal car accident which left her quite shaken up * on Friday of last week she had her first BIG disassociation where she couldn't recognize herself in a mirror or she felt like her voice sounded like someone else's voice. As a result she started crying and was immensely terrified before I took over completely for the first time.  * we both have different handwritings(I'm left handed while she's right handed) and I don't like having my hair touch my neck while she refuses to put hers up, as well as both having vastly different tastes in things.  * I've been coming out a lot more over the last few days as it's been a stressful time * she realized this morning that she almost completely forgot everything that happened last night when someone asked what she had for dinner but couldn't remember. she also found out that she did some "questionable" things on call with a friend and ended up hurting said friend but she didn't remember how or why, she only knew that people were mad at her These are just the main things going on in our lives right now but we're not sure whether or not we're just crazy... as y'all probably know, research can only do so much to help lol. We've talked to our mom about it and I'm planning on bringing it up to a doctor next time we go but we're not sure when that will be. Please if this is anything y'all can relate to please let me know because it's honestly kind of terrifying... with the most love I can offer, Bug 🐞
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need some advice
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by theFaultInOurStars20
Last post
 June 10th, 2025
...See more Hey yall,  So over the past few weeks(like 6 I think....) I've been really thinking of how I identify in regards to gender. I'm in my late teens and have gone through some periods where I identified as many different things, though the only one that felt right was identifying as genderfluid(in the terms that I identify as both male and female but also sometimes neither.... I'm not sure) Now I've been thinking more about it recently and thought I'd bring it up to my current boyfriend who I adore and thought would be very supportive... though, when I brought it up to him he mentioned how I "wasnt a guy" and he got all quiet when I mentioned it.  So I'm not really sure how to feel now...  I constantly feel like I'm falling out of the gender stereotypes but I like to feel both masculine, feminine, and none at all at different times.  I don't know how to bring this up to my boyfriend again and I'm worried he won't like me as much if I tell him how I feel. Though, I'm still trying to figure out what I really identify as lol  If this sounds normal or something please let me know because tbh... I feel like I'm going crazy lol(this is just how I feel, not to invalidate anyone else) and I feel like all the articles and research I've done don't give me real answers so please, if yall have any advice, feel free to reach out lol I sure as heck need it lol yall have a good night yours,  Bug (I'm just putting that cuz theFaultInOurStars is too long lol)
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got in a fist fight with my younger brother
Journals & Diaries / by theFaultInOurStars20
Last post
 June 8th, 2025
...See more hey y'all...  This happened about 10 minutes ago, and I really didn't have anyone else to talk to about it, so I've come on here to talk about it lol I was watching the new season of Ginny and Georgia(great show... like would strongly recommend) when my brother(11 years old) barged in and told me my sister(9 years old) needed to go to bed, I gave him reasons why she didn't and he started to argue with me... I told him that I'd tell her to go to bed and that he needed to go to bed as well. He then started to yell at me and refused to even listen to me speak.... I got up out of bed to talk to him and he ended up punching me and we got into a like fist fight =/ I'm gonna have a bruise across my chest because of it....  Well, I was just getting on here to get y'all's advice. Should I go to my mom about it, or just deal with it myself? And if I do, how do I stop it from happening in the future??? like AITA?(sounds like a reddit story ong....)  Please, if ya want to, I'd appreciate some advice lol thanks for you're time and have a great night!!
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how do I bring up my "change" in identity to my bf
Relationship Stress / by theFaultInOurStars20
Last post
 June 3rd, 2025
...See more Hey, So I've been with this guy(my bf) for about 2 months now. I learned pretty early in that he has DID(dissociative identity disorder) but found out that his alters don't really like me....  I've recently been thinking a lot about who I am and what I identify or feel like I am...(like I feel like I'm in this weird place of feeling like a guy but also feeling like a girl... like I want to fit both stereotypes cuz I feel like I think differently than I should) though I really dont know how to bring this up to my bf... like I'm worried that if I do, than he wont like me as much or he'll listen to all the bad things his alters have thought about me =/  idk... if yall have any advice or wtv please reach out, I really don't know what to do but this has been weighing on me for some time lol  anywaysers, have a good day yall =] 
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