I'm trapped in a relationship that hurts me but that person is my only support
I am going through a very complicated situation. I have an illness and I have had to return to my mother's house and leave work. Because of the illness, I have lost contact with people and the only person I practically talk to is my ex-boyfriend. The relationship hurts me but when I need support, he gives it to me. I have suffered abuse in my family so my relationship with them is not good at all. I have no one else. All I have left is the hope of getting physically well and being able to get my life back. Please help
@loyalnectarine809
I hear you. I really do. You’re carrying so much your illness, the isolation, the painful family history, and the complicated relationship with your ex. That’s a lot for anyone to handle, and I can only imagine how heavy it must feel.
I want you to know that your pain is valid and that it makes complete sense why you feel stuck right now. When life strips away so much, we cling to whatever still feels like a lifeline, even when it also hurts us. You’re not weak for holding onto your ex for support. You’re just trying to survive with the resources you have and that’s okay.
But you deserve more than just survival. You deserve a future where you feel safe, valued, and at peace. And even though it might not feel like it right now, this moment in your life is not the final chapter. Your hope of getting physically well and reclaiming your life that hope is powerful. Hold onto it.
I know you feel alone, but you are not truly alone. There are people in this world who will understand you, support you, and care for you in a way that doesn’t hurt. They may not be in your life right now, but that doesn’t mean they won’t be in the future. For now, just take it one step at a time healing, resting, finding small moments of peace where you can. You are worthy of love and support that doesn’t come at the cost of your well-being.
And if you ever need a reminder of that, I’m here. You’re not alone in this, okay? Keep holding on.
Thank you so much for your words of support, I really appreciate them. Throughout my life, I haven't met many people willing to help, and seeing that they exist fills me with hope. I'd like to find people who care for me and look after them, because without love, life has little meaning. Thanks again.
@loyalnectarine809You're a genuine soul and keep that generosity for yourself too..you deserve kindness and happiness 😊 stay blessed dear ❤️