My mom doesn't care and she's in on it
goodClementine9949
April 6th, 2025
My stepfather molested me when I was young. I told my mom at 11 and she didn't believe me. At 15 her bf admitted to doing so but still stays with him. Now she's saying she believed me all along just didn't want to leave him because "she's been through way more and this love is all she knows"🙄
She also goes into grossss details about their sex life and tells me about her fantasies. She's has shown me her nude photos and talks about her boyfriends privates. It's like she's re traumatizing me. HE MADE ME DO STUFF TO HIM LIKE STOP. Sorry for the trauma dump
Aayla
April 7th, 2025
@goodClementine9949 I'm so sorry you went through this. SA is never justifiable, there's no excuse for it, and your mother is also hurting you deeply and making things worse. It sounds like something deeply disfunctional is going on here, and you're falling victim to both of them. You probably have already tried all you could to enforce your boundaries and protect yourself, and constantly having to deal with all of this must be draining and painful.
My best wish for you is to be able to find a safe space where all of this won't reach you anymore. I don't know if you're old enough to move away or able to sustain yourself, but don't hesitate to distance yourself from them as soon as you get the chance. Love isn't owed just because of blood ties. Love means caring for each other, not neglecting and hurting the ones you're supposed to protect. I wish you to find true care and respect in relationships where you are actually valued. And if you're having trouble dealing with all of this in the meantime, don't hesitate to seek counselling and support. You don't have to face this alone.
