Needing help sending email to my Mom
I’m sending an email to my mom to tell her that I’ve decided to go no contact with my dad. They are married and have an okay relationship. I’m wanting to tell her how he molested me but in a way that isn’t defensive. I’m trying to word it as I want to open up to her. I’m terrible at writing so does anyone have any tips?
@lightWriter5479
I know this might not be as helpful or what you want to hear ....
I find in moments when you need to tell disturbing and uncomfortable as direct and honest as you can is best when people try to soften or ease the discomfort for the receiver .... many things get twisted or misread ......
does she have any clue or are you afraid she does but did not intervene?
when going NO contact being direct and setting clear boundaries is important .... it is hard to cuts some off but not others when they are connected .I
tried and while my boundary was they not speak of others when i was around the person could not seem to follow that so i ended up cutting that person off too ....... i regret that was not what i wanted they are gone now so i missed the last years..i could have had.