Scared of everything
New here, a couple years ago I moved states, spent 3 months in a hotel looking for a house. Unfortunately my experience at this hotel has changed me forever. I am literally scared of everyone and everything. I don’t leave my house, rarely will even go in the yard unless my husband is with me. I am just trying to find someone that might have gone through something similar.
@orangeRaspberries6093
It is a hard thing to overcome when we fear all... i am sure whatever that happened to you to make you fear things was traumatic, have you spoken to someone ( counselor/ therapist) about it?
overcoming fear is IMO taking baby steps into doing a little bit more until you feel comfortable.
No I have not, I am not working and money is very tight. I have been looking for a WFH position because I can’t even think about having to go out alone. Thank you for the response.
I lived in fear for 2 years due to a stalker situation. I was scared of everything! I'm not sure if you are religious or not,it may not matter. I ready this book and it changed my world. I now look at everything through fearless eyes.
It's called" Fearless, by Max Lucado"
Best of luck,believe in yourself! Feel free to reach out if you need a listening ear .sending love and good vibes.
Thank you for the reply, I would really like to talk and just get your take on my situation. I feel so alone even though my fiancé is amazing. It’s just no one understands. I don’t even understand.
I'm not sure if you can message on here? I'm not sure how that works. If you're comfortable just posting to this thread I would be happy to chat!
Lots of love and prayers
Chatting would be great! Thanks
I am working on four years now. It is somewhat better because I have made a cocoon in my house with my fiancé
that I never leave. It gives me some peace but I know it is not great for me.
@orangeRaspberries6093 hi sweetie ❤ yep! I'm there with you, I don't leave my home, people are scary, I lack self confidence. It's not a great way to live is it🙁 hugs you tightly ❤
I would love to hear your story, I am dying to find someone with a similar experience that can understand.
I feel you understand my state of mind. I was never like this at all. Everything, including me is so different now.
