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TW sexual assault

User Profile: RJhasCresteds
RJhasCresteds February 26th, 2025

I was SA’d like 5 years ago and only just now have the strength to try and report it. As I was looking for resources I reached out to a helpline and they blamed me for not reporting it sooner, didn’t ask me questions about what had happened to give me a good resource and then they sent me a resource that was only for women in DV situations. I’m not a woman nor was my SA part of a DV.


I just feel lost. Hurt. Shocked that someone actually did that to me. I was looking for support and I got blamed instead.

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 February 27th, 2025

@RJhasCresteds sits beside you and wraps you in a warm blanket,and hugs you tightly 💗 I'm so sorry that happened🙁 that was heartbreaking to read 🙁 what happened to you matters, your feelings about this matters, and we have a very supportive place here, I'm glad you finally have the courage to open up about all this 💗 gives you hug 💗

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User Profile: RJhasCresteds
RJhasCresteds OP February 27th, 2025

Thank you for the hug! I needed it

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User Profile: RJhasCresteds
RJhasCresteds OP February 27th, 2025

update: I found a different resource. This resource has been helpful to me and people have reached out, reassured me, and told me no one will blame me for anything that happened. I’m excited to see what this new resource will bring to me. Scared but excited.

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 February 27th, 2025

@RJhasCresteds good luck 💗💗

User Profile: WorkingitThrough2
WorkingitThrough2 February 28th, 2025

@RJhasCresteds

I am so glad that you found a support system. I know it may feel scary, but that's normal. I hope they give you all the help that you need because SA nobody deserves. We are here if you need someone to talk to . I am a product of SA, and you do need to have support and love,e and understanding to help you process this. I am so sorry this happened, and know this is not your fault. Don't let anyone make you feel that it was.

Stay safe❤️

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