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The Last Link

User Profile: 4sta
4sta January 1st, 2024

I’ll admit I have a lot from my past that I still hold on to. Manly the deaths of two of my friends I was very close to. I know that they both would want to be happy but it’s just so hard without them here. It’s been 7 years without them but I still miss them so much. I guess it just feels like the pain of it is the last link that is connecting me to what I lost sometimes. Not only with this but honestly with a lot of things and my life and that makes it so much harder to let go when I know I should.

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User Profile: WorkingitThrough2
WorkingitThrough2 January 5th, 2024

@4sta

Hi, 4sta; I am glad that you reached out for some support. Losses can make a tremendous impact on our life, especially when they are close to us.. I am so sorry that you lost two of your best friends and I know that you miss them.

Moving on, remembering the good times that you shared with them as a focus point might help ease some of the pain you are feeling. I am sure if they were here, they would say to you how they appreciate you, not forgetting them, but they would want you to be well knowing they are ok. You are a true friend, but You have so much to look forward to. Make them proud of you knowing they are not forgotten.

I am here with you in your grief, and if you need to just keep talking, that is good. I will respond.

Please be gentle with yourself. We have a grief and loss forum here which may be of interest and support to you❤️

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User Profile: 4sta
4sta OP January 10th, 2024

Hey I apologize for the late reply honestly been dealing with a lot. I just wanted to say I appreciate you a lot for your reply reading it honestly makes me feel a bit better so thank you. Your right it not easy without them and I honestly miss them every day. I know that they would want me to be happy and live the life I’ve always wanted, I also know they are in a better place now. It’s just really never been the same without them.

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User Profile: WorkingitThrough2
WorkingitThrough2 January 10th, 2024

@4sta

Totally understandable😊❤️

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