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User Profile: SadLady45
SadLady45 November 18th, 2025

I m very anxious n scaredmy abuser is free on bail by court stating good behavior but I highly doubt n he have Myadress I m so anxiousOur justice system sucks there's no protection to victims of SA I just find it very sad n painful

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User Profile: Aayla
Aayla November 18th, 2025
@SadLady45 I'm so sorry you have to go through this. Women who survived abuse don't get nearly as much protection as they need and deserve. Is there still a restraining order in place? If not, is it possible to take legal action to get one?
Support centers for women who are victim of violence might be a good resource for you. If there is one near the place where you live, you might have access to legal counseling and advice on how to be safer, as well as psychological support, if you feel like you might need it. I hope you get all the support, justice and safety you deserve.
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User Profile: SadLady45
SadLady45 OP November 19th, 2025

@Aayla I was here for emotional support tbh and you all clearly didn't understood me I was just upset n exhausted how society treats victims I m fed up of victim blaming as well I even attempted sui cide multiple times the emotional wounds will never go but people only talks about legal stuffs but never understanfs how it damages us mentally  most people have a fixation with punishing the bad guy, not with helping the victim. it's why i don't talk about it anywhere anymore 

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User Profile: honestString
honestString November 20th, 2025

@SadLady45 I'm so sorry this happened and that you feel exhausted 😔

I think @Aayla was trying to make sure that you are safe. I'm also obsessed with the legal aspect, so so sorry 🙈

But know that whatever you decide we are here for you.

I have also been dealing with trauma and it is exhausting but people do get better. We cannot lose hope, is a light that keeps us going 💫💗💗💗

Know that our thoughts are with you, for you to get better too. One small step at a time but I have faith in you.

There is a YouTube channel I love and wanted to share with you. It is called Therapy in a nutshell. It has some good meditations and information about trauma. It is really interesting when we can understand why we are experiencing some things in our minds and bodies, at least it brings some sort if relief to see ah this happens to all people with trauma, I'm not alone in this hehe.

If you want to share a channel or a page you love feel free to do so!

as someone I admire says:

All the love, all the power!

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User Profile: courteousBeach7012
courteousBeach7012 December 24th, 2025

After enduring significant emotional distress due to my ex-husband's abusive behavior, I have gathered substantial evidence of his actions. With the assistance of @Technocrat_ICT on X, I am preparing to file for divorce and seek full custody of our children. Your guidance during this process would be invaluable.