abuse/sa
im finally starting the process of going to the cops about my sa that happened back in 2023 but im extremely worried nobody will take me serious and he will walk away free. ever since him and i broke up hes been telling people i abused him and he was a victim in the relationship and even had one of my old "friends" turn against me and now believes him. shes even dating him now so im scared she will be in the court room. i have so many worries that makes it feel like this might not be worth it. i just need some type of closure and having him going around talking about me in that way and denying ever assaulting me sucks. i know nobody will ever admit it willingly but i just wish he would shut up about it. my old friend (his new gf) has caused me *** by going around spreading the same rumours he told her thinking its all true and its turning so many people against me. it sucks how people view him as this victim that did nothing wrong meanwhile i was 17 and he was 30. he did so many things to me not just the sa and people still think hes great.
@graciemarie8
Hey. Your situation seems really tough. I m here for you though. I want to let you know that you need to contact the police and tell them about it. Also, if you can, please get in touch with a therapist about SA that can help you.
I want to let you know that I am open as a listener here to talk with you. If you feel like it text me.
ive reached out to victim services in my town to try and get help with filing the report because im terrified of talking about it out loud. i will 100% be looking into a therapist! i appreciate your words<33 i will def take you up on that offer:)
@graciemarie8
I am so glad you reached out to the victim services of your town! I think that you can also take up a therapist here at 7 cups if you are an adult but its not free. Either way you decide the therapist you want because you need to feel comfortable with your therapist. I hope and wish your situation gets better and that you will get the justice you deserve and maybe save more girls from that man.
Also, thank you for considering my offer of texting me. Please be safe.