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what is happiness?

User Profile: keay
keay February 12th, 2025

I’m traumatized by happiness, sounds weird but it's true. Every time I'm happy, something bad happens. So whenever I feel happy, I also get scared and anxious. Guess I’m just not meant to be happy.



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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 February 12th, 2025

@keay

I think you are OK ...

more then a few people feel the same way ... worried or anxious when things are going well and we seem happy.  I feel I have not really enjoyed great times because i was thinking if i act like it is only OK ....in case being really happy jinxed it.  

Quit looking for bad .... when things pop up take a breath and handle what you can dread/ anxiety and fear..... is what turns small speed bumps in life to a much bigger issue. 

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User Profile: keay
keay OP February 12th, 2025

"Yeah, I get what you mean. It’s just hard not to overthink when bad stuff keeps happening after I feel happy. But I’ll try to chill and not let the anxiety take over. Thanks for the advice👍

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