Movie theater drama from my aunt and a respite provider
Dear diary:
A few months prior to moving out of my aunt's house, a respite provider, who took me to and from the bus quit on my aunt and I. Why? It also started when I invited her to go see a movie with me at a value cinema as a way of saying "Thank you." Because she had such a rigid schedule and was taking care of another client, I had to limit my options in movies. At the time, I felt like I had to bend over backwards for her and her other client's needs. She even had me schedule the time for us to meet up for the movie.,
Being that I was there early and wanted to enjoy the outing, another movie was playing and so I decided to catch the first hour and call her to leave a message about it. I also made a habit of checking my phone but was not hearing from her so I decided to watch the entire movie. When the movie got out, I found two voicemails from her.
1. The first when she not until she was sitting in her seat at the cinema
2. The second one was a "Where are you? I have to find you'
Meanwhile, my aunt also called me and said that this provider also called and she had mall security and theater staff looking for me, in a very angry tone telling me that what I did was "Unacceptable"
Shortly after that, the provider had the nerve to humiliate me by treating 27 year old me like a child and outright punish me, This was where she pulled me away from the cinema, threw a tantrum and basically accusing me of breaking my promise and standing her up. Yet, there were other times where she made it clear she didn't care about me and nor did she really seem to have time for me,
-For example: My aunt's house flooded earlier that week but she could not be bothered to come and help me with the mess. Two other floods were way more important.
@Summershy
I hope this is all just a misunderstanding..
I totally respect your thoughts and feelings though..
I hope things will calm down and you don't have to put up with these disappointing situations that seem to happen regularly..🌟
@AsherTree
Hi:
This provider was there to earn some extra money by mainly providing me rides to and from the bus. Otherwise, she really did nothing for me. Instead, everyone and everything was a higher priority in her life.
@Summershy
Well if your not a priority to her, don't be a priority to her either.
I hope you can find someone better soon..🌲
@AsherTree
Actually, I outgrew the provider situation at that time anyway. Still, I felt betrayed because I thought this was a woman who I could trust.
@Summershy
If you lose trust in someone it's actually a gift because they're telling you that their not supposed to be a part of your life..
@AsherTree
She definately was not mean to be.
@AsherTree
Actually, she was pretty immature, unprofessional, and entitled. She also failed to communicate with me, when I did my part to leave a message with her before blaming me for "Standing her up." Not to mention, creating a false narrative with my aunt before creating drama by sending out a search party. Even worse, she humilated me, so...
@Summershy
Wow, it sounds toxic to me..🌟
@AsherTree
She even lied to both my aunt and I about things
1. She told my aunt that I stood her up, even though I sent that voice mail, telling her where I was
2.She also told me that she had attempted to text but there was no proof of that
Additionally, she said that she sent out a search party of mall cops and cinema staff to find me because "She was worried" right? That being said, she M.I.A when a small part of my aunt's house flooded due to heavy storms the night before. While she was too busy helping other people, because their flooding was worse, she did not lift a finger for me.
