.... my story >.< advice needed
i am a 15 year old girl and a couple of weeks ago i was molested i havnt rly talked about it to anyone but my bestfriend and boyfriend .... the boy goes to my school he is in my year and classes we go back to school on the tuesday im so scared to see him i havnt seen him since he did it .. it was at a school trip we were watching a performance he started touching my thigh i scooted over in my seat but he just reached further it was dark as it was in the middle of the performance and he then put his hand down my skirt and kept squizing my bum i was frozen i couldnt speak or move i was shocked i didnt know wat to do he continued doing this till the performance ended afterwards he ignored me and pretended nothing hapened i was confused and still shocked and once i got home i checked my phone he was messaging me saying how he knew i secretly enjoyed it and asking me for pics he said if i ddint send anything hed rape me im really scared he said afterwards it was a joke but im still scared i cant see him i dont know whats going to hapen who i sould go to when i told my best friend she said if i didnt report it she would and now im scared because i dont want people to find out when i told my boyfriend he didnt care ....... i dont know what to do
I'm sorry that happened to you. It sounds like your friend and your boyfriend aren't really sure what to do either. Definitely if there is a school counselor or someone you feel safe talking to that can help, that is a good idea. I have learned to say "hey that's not appropriate" really loudly and even make a scene, but it took me a long time to figure out I could do that. Find out ways to protect yourself in this kind of situation if it ever happens again, even if you decide you don't want to report what happened. That way you can take back your power.
If you think his threats are serious, getting safe adult help is very important. Please feel better. Not your fault.
