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Hello everyone. I am new here. I don't have a lot of time for traditional therapy. I am hoping I can maybe find support here.
I am estranged from family. There is a lot of intergenerational trauma. I am with a partner of 4 years. It is a rollercoaster. Said partner is an active alcoholic with a history of substance abuse. I struggle to connect with most people and have few other social supports.
I'm an adult learner in nursing college and I work. I don't have a lot of time. I'm trying to detach from my relationship as it has been aggravating old wounds and old trauma is resurfacing. I need to be focused on my schooling and I'm worried I am being sabotaged.
This is a very me-centric post, I apologize. Every day has become about giving to others and my cup is empty. I am hoping to be understood.
@watermelons
it is hard to give when our cup is empty. It is also hard when juggling work/ school etc to leave or challenge a bad relationship.
When estranged from family we tend to try to hold on to the relationships, we have even if flawed.
I have become a very task-oriented person with stunted social capacity. I can get through work and complete goals...but I feel I am unable to form friendships and enjoy life. I feel I've become a robot moving from one job to the next. It is hard to have fun and relax.
Hi @watermelons.
Welcome to 7cups.
This is a healthy place to explore your feelings and be heard and understood.
It is unfortunate you are having difficulties talking and finding social enrichment in your life.
You seem like a responsible and intelligent person. Many here can offer support here because many here have very similar issues like you do.
I hope your life improves and you find more peace and serenity. 🌟
You've got a lot on your plate, multi tasking is exhausting. If you can find a lil fun in your day to break it up that will help.
The icebreaker/games section can help you connect, simply commenting and joining in is interesting and a good start to mingling :)
@watermelons I’m sorry to hear about your situation. Juggling school and work is no joke. I hope that you get out of your unhealthy relationship and live a happy and peaceful life.