can someone relate?
i wonder if someone relate to me :(
so hi i'm noah and i have discovered that i have cptsd my dad is a awfully alcholist he drinks yells and used to phycial abuses me right now he only does it verbal my mom is done with his behavour too but....my mom doesn't see this as abuse can someone relate?
@firefairypower433
My mom use to get my dad to punish me but she secretly hated how harsh he was.
Some mothers are scared to get involved with their husband discipline methods..🌲
@firefairypower433 I think a lot of adult children with CPTSD feel alone when a non abusive parent minimizes the trauma. Her denial could be a survival mechanism, but it leaves you without validation. A lot of parents in this position frequently default to denial for a few reasons. If she admits that his yelling and physical abuse was wrong, it forces her to confront her failure to protect you. Sometimes the guilt of that is too heavy for them to bear, so they choose to pretend it never happened.
@firefairypower433
I am so sorry that you are feeling this way. What does your mom think is happening?
@firefairypower433
I can.
More so to myself and because of my mom.
Her mother is really emotionally abusive And apparently I'm the only one that sees it. So it can be really frustrating and lonely something.
@brightDime6765
Hey, notice you aren't alone. Don't shut down yourself and think, "don't listen to them," or, "they are wasting my time." If you are going to school, study independently or rely on your friends to laugh and ignore the hard times so you can show off your efforts at the end! 🥹
I just read a statistic today that says one in every 3 children will see their mother hit. I was astounded
@jeslynhackler
That's really insane
