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Feelings after the event

User Profile: cukulata
cukulata August 18th, 2019

Hi, this is my first post in this app. A few weeks ago, I was raped and started to take EMDR treatment. It is not traumatic that much and I don't think it much anymore. But, I feel worthless and demoralized ;lost my self esteem. I still cry some nights because of this worthless feeling. Even I think to end my life. I have no dreams for future and I have no goals to live for. I don't know what I would do to start over

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User Profile: BlueIsQuiet
BlueIsQuiet August 18th, 2019

Rape is never the victim's fault... but I think you already knew that. You still have those feelings, and that's normal. Feelings aren't exactly rational, and they're there even when they make no sense. It's okay to feel about this. It's human.

Try talking to a friend. A few weeks ago, I had similar feelings about self-harm tendencies that... I didn't actually have. I only felt ashamed of it, even though it wasn't there. After talking to some friends and letting myself cry a bit, I felt like myself again.

User Profile: adventurousBranch3786
adventurousBranch3786 August 19th, 2019

@cukulata Hi , I'm glad that your here and I hop that you can get the support that you need.