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I regret losing my virginity to someone from tinder

User Profile: crownie
crownie May 16th, 2020

Last night I went to a hotel. I met this guy 4 times. I never planned to have him taking my virginity. But he did it anyway. At that time I didnt say no. But immediately after that I felt guilty and regret. I've been keeping my virginity for a long long time. and I did it with someone from tinder?????? I live in Indonesia, a very conservative country. Now, I feel worthless. I feel like I'm low. I wish this is all just a nightmare but it isn't. What should I do? I regret that so much

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User Profile: Shyness98
Shyness98 May 28th, 2020

Sex is something so intimate and it is completely your choice what you want to do and who you want to share that experience with, you are not worthless right now you are feeling shame and that's okay hey it's apart of life and you learn from these experiences. Sure you "lost" your virginity but you are gonna find someone who is gonna value so much right now you are gonna have to value yourself. Forgive yourself because you can't take it back and be compassionate to yourself you are worth so much!