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Is it my fault?

User Profile: saiheart05
saiheart05 July 27th, 2021

I get scared when I remember my past trauma. When I was a student, I was stalked by a guy from my school. He liked me, but I refused his confession. One day, he came to my house. I did not stop him from coming into my house. Then he touched me and kissed me. I didn't agree, but I didn't refuse. I thought that maybe I had seduced him sexually, and that what happened was my fault. It's a trauma I remember in the summer.

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User Profile: Sukj
Sukj July 27th, 2021

It was not ur fault dear.... u didn't seduce him.... u was scared.... it's not ur fault ....

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User Profile: saiheart05
saiheart05 OP July 27th, 2021

Thank you so much.

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User Profile: sadpothead
sadpothead July 27th, 2021

No it's not your fault it was out of your control I just wish I had been there to prevent that from happening to you,no one deserves that,just know some people in this world are truly evil it's not your fault you happened to Stumble upon a such a conduit of darkness

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User Profile: saiheart05
saiheart05 OP July 27th, 2021

Thanks for the kind words.

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User Profile: RayniLayne13
RayniLayne13 July 29th, 2021

@saiheart05

Hey saiheart! It was absolutely NOT your fault- his advances should've ended when you first expressed your lack of interest. What you are feeling is (unfortunately) a very common feeling to have after having this kind of experience- I know I struggled with feelings of guilt as well. If you would ever like to connect, feel free to message me.

User Profile: MrProsper
MrProsper July 29th, 2021

Hi @saihearth05 it is absolutely not your fault, you panicked and you didn’t act. That happened to all of us sometimes. You should not live with regrets, just make peace with yourself, with your past and i’m sure that you will be ok. Stay safe and God bless!