I think my boyfriend raped me
Last week on Tuesday not this past Tuesday but the one before that. I had sex with my boyfriend because he had been asking and pressuring me for a while now. and | just thought why not. It started out fine we
started to have sex but I just couldnt do it. so I told him to stop. Then he said its not that bad you will be fine and I said no I cant do this. He wasnt letting me get up. I said please I dont want to anymore. then he said well you already agreed, you cant just go changing your mind whenever. so we are going to do this rather you want to or not. then I was fighting to get up and just repeating no over and over. I dont know what to do. |m Not even sure this even counts as rape because I did agree. Its just Im so scared.
@NicoleLovesKittens That was rape, I'm sorry. if you withdrew consent at any point, contiuing is rape, no matter if you already agreed. I'm so sorry, love, but don't downplay your experience or doubt yourself <3
@NicoleLovesKittens
From the sound of it, this guy is no good and he needs to respect you when it comes to your decision. You should not be with person.
@NicoleLovesKittens
I'm sorry this happened, but he definitely raped you. You can withdraw consent at any time so what he said wasn't true. Him pressuring you into sex in the first place is also wrong and can be seen as a crime in itself.
Seek help if you can but I would say leaving your boyfriend would be the best thing to do right now. He doesn't respect you at all and he could do this again. :(