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Raped by my ex boyfriend - need support

User Profile: peachHuman1518
peachHuman1518 April 3rd, 2022

Hello!


I'm new here,


So I was raped by my ex boyfriend in the end of 2021 but I only realized it like 2 months after, it was January 2022. After that I broke up with him but never confronted him about what he did.

Now I don't really know what to do, has anyone ever experienced this? (not realizing in the moment of the rape that it was rape)

And do you have any advices?


I've never told anyone about it, and I'm abroad for this semester so I can't talk to a therapist about it for now.


Thanks!

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User Profile: EmbStitcher33
EmbStitcher33 April 3rd, 2022

@peachHuman1518

O man, I'm so sorry for what happened to you. I was raped by my husband. I know how awful it feels. There's a lot of good listeners here. Don't be afraid to engage with one. You're not going through this alone if you keep coming back here. People here care. Take care. {{{{hugs}}}}

User Profile: endearingTree12
endearingTree12 April 3rd, 2022

@peachHuman1518

Hi Peach,

I'm a listener here on 7 cups, and I would be happy to chat with you. Feel free to reach out any time, though I am more available for live chats on weekends in US time.

Alternatively, if you are in a very different time zone, feel free to check out the available listeners here:

https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/

Best wishes to you.