Reporting SA
Has anyone had any experience reporting SA to the police? What happens when you report it? What difference does it make to report the SA? Why is it so difficult wanting to report it to the police? Its like having to relive it all over again. You already feel bad about everything. Not sure how reporting it will make things better. Also anyone afraid of relatiation?
@adaptableEast9058
Though I never reported my SA to authorities, I do think it is helpful to do. I was so young that I didn't know I had the option to report.
It can be difficult for some, because you have to disclose what actually happened, repeatedly when it goes through the process of a trial. This alone can deter people from reporting.
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@adaptableEast9058
Hey East,
I have had reporting SA to police. Well when you report things to the police they obviously need to get a recording of you for evidence on what exactly happened during the event. It seems like reporting SA doesn't make a difference. For some it does for some it doesn't. It really depends on the person. Most people usually stay silent and don't talk about the trauma they went through and never get their justice. But it is a hard topic to talk about. I guess most people feel like the authorities won't do anything or won't believe them. It is like having to relive it all over again. I would understand how this would make a person feel worse about reporting it and decided to stay silent. Although staying silent seems like the better option it's not. Your voice and opinion matter. I hope you know you're not alone. Thanks for reaching out to 7 cups to ask these questions that aren't easy to ask. I hope you take care and stay safe. ❤️
The friend that was with me when this happened doesn't think I should report it, my mom doesn't think I should report it and then another female friend thinks I should just let it go even though I have evidence from a text message with him admitting to the butt smack. This is the problem because the majority of people who I talked to about this are telling me to not report it to the police.
@adaptableEast9058
Hey East,
I understand people telling you not to report it. But ultimately you're the one who can make the decision whether or not to report it. If you think it's important and you want to get justice than go ahead and report. If you'd much rather stay silent which I don't think is the case here then you can stay silent. But then you'll never get your justice. Either way it's up to you not them.