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adaptableEast9058
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Thoughts of an ex 13 years later.
Relationship Stress / by adaptableEast9058
Last post
 January 24th, 2022
...See more My last relationship ended last year. I am a woman who is taking a break from dating men to focus on myself for awhile. The last couple weeks I have had two dreams about my ex boyfriend from 13 years ago. Also been thinking about him the last couple days. Any ideas as to what this means? I did not keep in touch with him for the past 13 years and I have no idea what happened to him. I wonder what happened to his house, his love life and his life.
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Is thus trauma?
Trauma Support / by adaptableEast9058
Last post
 January 14th, 2022
...See more The company cars that I work for had their catalytic converters stolen this week but my car was spared. I am still shaken up over it. Is this considered a traumatic event even though my car was spared? I am anxious and scared it will happen again and there is no protection. My boss says that there is no way the police will catch them.
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Is name calling a type of bullying?
Trauma Support / by adaptableEast9058
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 January 15th, 2022
...See more I had a situation last year that was upsetting. I was attending a hiking group which was out of town. Most of the time we would all go hiking and that was all. Then one day I suggested we go get some lunch because after hiking we worked up an appetite. We met at a restaurant. One of the guys and one of the girls were being very attentive to each other and then the girl bought the guys meal. Later I asked the guy if there was something going on between them. He said no. The girl found out what I said and she got really upset. Then the leader of the group told me at another hike that the girl dropped out of the group. The leader wanted me to talk to the girl. The girl didn't want to talk to me and instead she texted me to tell me I was a " Wack Job." I went back to the group and the leader would not stop talking about it. I stopped going to the group and I dropped out because it was no fun and I didn't enjoy going. Since then the girl rejoined the group. The girl never apologized. What do you think?
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Reporting SA
Trauma Support / by adaptableEast9058
Last post
 January 12th, 2022
...See more Has anyone had any experience reporting SA to the police? What happens when you report it? What difference does it make to report the SA? Why is it so difficult wanting to report it to the police? Its like having to relive it all over again. You already feel bad about everything. Not sure how reporting it will make things better. Also anyone afraid of relatiation?
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Anxiety
Anxiety Support / by adaptableEast9058
Last post
 January 9th, 2022
...See more Here is a story about what might triggor my anxiety. I was leaving work and had to go to the bathroom. The door was locked because someone was in there. I went back the person just left the bathroom. Unfortunately, the person left pee on the seat. I didn't use the toilet and went home. Now I am worried that I didn't tell someone about the pee on tbe seat. I might keep thinking about this situation for awhile and maybe obsess about it until Monday. What would you have done? Would you have done something different?
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Friendships
Relationship Stress / by adaptableEast9058
Last post
 January 6th, 2022
...See more Over the years, I have moved to different cities. Additionally, I have met new people and tried to make new friends. Other people have come and gone in my life to where there are very few people that I can actually go out and have fun with. It seems to be harder for me to get too close to people and keep people in my life.
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My Story
Trauma Support / by adaptableEast9058
Last post
 January 6th, 2022
...See more I had a situation that happened and needed to talk about it. I am 47 years old who attended a hiking group. The hiking group had both men and women. One day there was a hiking group planned but was canceled because of weather. A few of the people, 2 women and 2 men decided to meet at a bowling alley to watch a music band. I didn't like the band so we went to another place to watch some music, do some line dancing and play pool. The one guy started to touch my hair, hold my hand, touch my back, then touch my butt and then smacked my butt really hard and it hurt for 4 days. I said it hurt and then he tried to hit it again and I backed away. The he kept on touching my private parts. I really felt violation especially because of the butt smack. I feel really bad that I didn't stop him grabbing me sooner. I feel bad that it was in a public place and in front of one of my friends.
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