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User Profile: indigoPlace8923
indigoPlace8923 December 1st, 2022

I am struggling so much with my husband. I had SA over 20 years ago but my PTSD from it is heavily affecting my relationship now. It’s been a hard day, the word divorce came up and my heart hurts so much.


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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 December 1st, 2022

@indigoPlace8923

Have you had counseling or talked with husband about what happened in the past ?

if so is there something that is triggering your emotions lately?


User Profile: indigoPlace8923
indigoPlace8923 OP December 2nd, 2022

No therapy, this app is my first time talking about it outside of the time I did talk to my husband about it.


maybe stress is making me on edge, holidays, job promotion, family.

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 December 2nd, 2022

@indigoPlace8923

When under stress past issues do tend to come up... even in the best situation your spouse might think you were over things and maybe the items between you keep coming up again and again ...

we have gone through that as well and divorce has been brought up more then once..........

it can be hard but trying to explain clearly what you are feeling and such is more important than i used to think .... wish i could have fixed the first time that word came up

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User Profile: indigoPlace8923
indigoPlace8923 OP December 2nd, 2022

Thank you for your kind words.


I won’t give up, but it hurts.

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