Remember Who You Are

For those of you who are experiencing bullying, I feel it is important to never forget the true person whom you are. You are not the negative portrait of a person whom others may try to make you out to be. Others may direct criticisms and insults at you, but these attacks have nothing to do with you, or your true character. A bully may call you fat, ugly, worthless, retarded or crazy, but none of these harsh comments ring true.

A bully may try to point out all of your flaws, but that is a flaw in themselves, not you. One has many positive traits, and the wonderful individual who one is, can never be tarnished by any negativity which others choose to engage in. That negativity is a direct reflection of wrongful behaviour, on the part of a bully, or bullies. Strive not to take personally, anything negative which a bully has said, or done. You do not have to blame yourself, for any negative words or actions taken by others. You are a unique, special, worthwhile, talented, proficient individual who is entirely separate from any bullying which may happen to you.

Always remember the amazing person who you are.