Confused
So I'm a female been with a guy for over 4 years. The last year has been very rough.
We used to have more sex. And now I caught him pleasing himself while I'll go 6-10 months no interaction....
He tells me I'm tripping when I've seen it with my own eyes. I'm alright with pleasing yourself. Never cared that much about it really and still don't.
What bothers me is that he can go almost a year with no sex just fine and anytime I try to make a move he reject me. But the once in a great great while if he wants it I'm there. Idk I've also noticed he never ever looks st me. NEVER
And always wants to do it from behind so he can't look at me. I feel disgusted idk what to do or think.
@BreeMariee1995
That is frustrating for sure ..... really makes you question what is he looking for ........ while i could care less about self pleasing themselves if they are doing that while we have a huge dry spell......... i think they should explain why.
I am guessing you asked and he is avoiding the subject........ but until you can communicate i would suggest taking care of yourself and saying No thanks to him
