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Dont force anything

User Profile: SaffronPrime
SaffronPrime November 8th, 2022

The biggest lesson I learned this year is to not force anything; conversations, friendships, relationships, attention, love. Anything forced is just not worth fighting for. Whatever flows flows, what crashes crashes. It is what it is.

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User Profile: innateJoy9602
innateJoy9602 November 8th, 2022

@SaffronPrime

This is a valuable we all learn at some point! I think this can be confused with determination in some sense. Determination is great. Determination is about keeping a specific goal, working toward it, and having the required perseverance to see it through. On the other hand, seeing that something is not working and continuing to force it, can cause frustration.💜

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User Profile: SaffronPrime
SaffronPrime OP November 8th, 2022

@innateJoy9602

Awesome thoughts and very thoughtful, thanks for sharing.

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User Profile: JayWolf627
JayWolf627 November 8th, 2022

@SaffronPrime This is definitely something I learned over the years. My happiness lies with me. Can't let others ruin it.

User Profile: SouthEast93
SouthEast93 November 8th, 2022

@SaffronPrime

Definitely!

It will come at the right time.

User Profile: agreeableDime6679
agreeableDime6679 January 31st, 2023

I know it's true. And I want myself to accept this reality. But somehow, I've been failing to completely accept it as the ultimate philosophy of my life.

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User Profile: Hapra
Hapra January 31st, 2023

@agreeableDime6679 I am interested in discussing ultimate philosophies with you or pretty much anyone

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User Profile: agreeableDime6679
agreeableDime6679 January 31st, 2023

Sure. I'd love to.

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User Profile: hhhhh1111
hhhhh1111 January 31st, 2023

@SaffronPrime Agree on whatever flows, flows. Things will align by itself. The universe doesn't have to be too complicated. I learned this the rough way but I'm glad I did.

User Profile: sociableKite791
sociableKite791 January 31st, 2023

@SaffronPrime

So TRUE even I needed to see this and remind myself..thanks for sharing

User Profile: purifyyoursoul
purifyyoursoul January 31st, 2023

@SaffronPrime Nothing in this world happens arbitrarily, everything happens for a reason.