Dont force anything
The biggest lesson I learned this year is to not force anything; conversations, friendships, relationships, attention, love. Anything forced is just not worth fighting for. Whatever flows flows, what crashes crashes. It is what it is.
@SaffronPrime
This is a valuable we all learn at some point! I think this can be confused with determination in some sense. Determination is great. Determination is about keeping a specific goal, working toward it, and having the required perseverance to see it through. On the other hand, seeing that something is not working and continuing to force it, can cause frustration.💜

@SaffronPrime This is definitely something I learned over the years. My happiness lies with me. Can't let others ruin it.
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Definitely!
It will come at the right time.
I know it's true. And I want myself to accept this reality. But somehow, I've been failing to completely accept it as the ultimate philosophy of my life.
@agreeableDime6679 I am interested in discussing ultimate philosophies with you or pretty much anyone
Sure. I'd love to.
@SaffronPrime Agree on whatever flows, flows. Things will align by itself. The universe doesn't have to be too complicated. I learned this the rough way but I'm glad I did.
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So TRUE even I needed to see this and remind myself..thanks for sharing
@SaffronPrime Nothing in this world happens arbitrarily, everything happens for a reason.