First time
Hey . It’s my first time here . Any relationship advice ? I’ve been in my relationship for about 3 years now and it has been a rollercoaster for the last 2 . I’ve been cheated on , lied to , second option , etc . Recently my part ( she ) was even messing with one of my old friends . I didn’t know about this but we tried to work things out again and she broke up with me because she said “ I don’t want to regret staying with you “ . And ended up being with him again and another person she had cheated on me with . Says she was just lonely , and the other person is just a friend . We are currently back together and i dont trust her at all and even just discovered a few things she had hid from me . But I believe her when she says she loves me and wants to build with me . Not sure if I’m taking the right steps or if I’m just being easily fooled because she realizes her mistakes but have been making the same mistakes for 2 years now .
@Loulime97
That is a lot to consider.....sounds like she should seek some counseling about what she really wants, or joint counseling to see if now is just the best time to cut your losses and not wait for the next fling or issue.
people who cheat are trying to fill a need or void they are not receiving in their current situation.... picking a mate of yours seems like a personal dig.
making same mistakes over and over is a pattern ..........................no longer a mistake.....IMO
