Idea 💡
"Maybe you can focus on yourself first. Dress up for yourself, keep fit for yourself, stay healthy, eat healthy, engaged in hobbies or passions that you like, and just have fun. With a refreshed energy and new lifestyle, who knows maybe that would open more opportunities for you, and attract friends or romantic relationships in your life! ☺️" - LavenderBreeze
@deadXennial
This is a fabulous idea!!!! Totally in agreement 💜
Only we feel our own happiness.
@peachThinker662 it's not disappointing?
- Sometimes the 'obvious' advice can feel pandering, condescending...
Even become deeply triggering. Or cause harmful damage.
@deadXennial
I don’t think it’s disappointing. For me, if I dress the way I want, nourish my body, practice self care and do the things I love, I’m going to bring that positive energy with me daily. I think that energy trickles to others and mostly positive interactions.
In my past, I’ve done Alot of people pleasing and that only lead me to a place of unhappiness and despair.
@peachThinker662
Not in a people pleasing sense but prophylaxis...the road to *** is paved with good intentions; a helping hand can be a direct slap to someone sunburned by life experience.
@deadXennial
Yes,
Do it for you and then the rest will follow!
💜💕
@deadXennial
Great advice! Focusing on yourself first is so important. Taking care of your health, hobbies, and happiness can really open doors and attract positive connections. Thanks for sharing.
But also if a person can manage one small thing all week then surely then its better positive than keeping with life demands.
@Sunshine82 Not necessarily better but different. Some people need lots of stimulation.