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User Profile: greendayfangirl
greendayfangirl September 14th, 2025

Wish I wasn’t a failure

Wish I wasn’t a failure

Wish I wasn’t a failure

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User Profile: cherrytwinkle
cherrytwinkle September 14th, 2025

Oh my dear… feeling hopeless can happen to any of us. Doesn't mean that you are a failure. Even if it’s a failure, it’s not going to prevail lifelong. There’s something that your experiences are trying to help you identify. Take cre.

User Profile: Shamrock1993
Shamrock1993 September 15th, 2025

@Greendayfangirl

you are not a failure!

you are not a failure!

you are not a failure!

Your breakthrough is coming you just have to be patient for it.

In Jesus name Amen

User Profile: Creamyyy
Creamyyy September 15th, 2025

I read this somewhere

FAIL = First Attempt In Learning

🙂

@greendayfangirl

User Profile: yoni10
yoni10 September 15th, 2025

Failure is the path we must go through to reach our true selves. It doesn't matter what happens, if you're on the journey that means you'll arrive at the destination.

When and how, only time will tell and everyone's journey is different.

You think you've failed because you compare yourself to others.

But you are unique, you are incredible. There is absolutely no one like you, and there never was or will be!!

That's success. Because you succeeded in being authentic and true to yourself. So keep on going and the journey will reveal many wonders and surprises.

Love🥰😇

User Profile: peachCake8933
peachCake8933 September 15th, 2025

You’re not a failure

User Profile: warmheartedHuman836
warmheartedHuman836 September 17th, 2025

Greenway girl, hope you come back. Everyone feels that way at times, sometimes for a long time! Life is tough! I left college to get a job in an underground coal mine, pay was outstanding until the thing caved in on me! I lived. But am a paraplegic. So I feels like you quite often!

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User Profile: greendayfangirl
greendayfangirl OP September 17th, 2025

@warmheartedHuman836 oh wow ya that sounds like just my luck. What a crazy thing to survive. Sorry you had to experience that, that couldn’t have been easy.

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User Profile: warmheartedHuman836
warmheartedHuman836 September 17th, 2025

Yeahhh! You answered! The first couple of years were awful. But l got into wheelchair road racing in those crazy looking 3 wheeled track chairs and realized l could still live a good life. The wheelchair part is easy for me now, but pain began when my spinal cord was snapped and us the same now as 44 years ago. I am struggling! Everyone has their own set of struggles. It is just a part of being alive on this planet. Stay in the moment, try to list out all your blessings, it helps. I have a roof above me, indoor plumbing. Heat and air conditioning, food, people who live me-both family and friends. On and on l can go when l listen my blessings. It helps me emotionally! People in 3rd world countries, they have it rough. Not me! I am blessed beyond all measure. Born in America. If only l could figure a way to get out of pain my life would open up considerably! But l think l must endure it until the end. I am at peace with that reality. But still look to see if there is something to do for it l have somehow missed. Ha, long enough for ya? I am a yapper! Lol

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User Profile: rodlistens
rodlistens September 17th, 2025

Green day you Are Not A Failure, You Are Great, You Are Beyond Great, as a matter of fact, You Are Awesome! Positive vibes your way!!

User Profile: powerfulEast1407
powerfulEast1407 September 17th, 2025

How about one foot in front of the other. If it doesn't work on one path we can try another.

User Profile: amazingbean795
amazingbean795 September 17th, 2025

@greendayfangirl

Your not hopeless. Your here and your giving me hope. I feel hopeless too but I pray that this moment passes 

User Profile: azurePlane1317
azurePlane1317 September 17th, 2025

@greendayfangirl


Has anyone tried these AI that generates a profile pic for your dating app (like this one: https://l.artics-us.com/truelove)???

They claim to generate natural-looking photos while still keeping your real face.

I don’t really like going out much, so if it’s actually at the quality shown on their website, I feel like it’s worth trying it.

Curious if this is actually real or just hype.

※I tried with GPT and Gemini, but the quality wasn’t as good as theirs. Maybe they’re using some specific tech?


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User Profile: greendayfangirl
greendayfangirl OP September 17th, 2025

@azurePlane1317 wow you are advertising a bot site, how “nice” of you 🙄

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User Profile: warmheartedHuman836
warmheartedHuman836 September 17th, 2025

Agreed, fangirl! Not the place for that?

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User Profile: greendayfangirl
greendayfangirl OP September 18th, 2025

@warmheartedHuman836 ya it’s annoying I’ve seen accounts like that all over Reddit that promote links to apps or whatever else. I usually just block them

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User Profile: warmheartedHuman836
warmheartedHuman836 September 18th, 2025

I guess the stupid stuff just comes with this imperfect world and social media where there is rarely any accountability. I hope you are cheering up a bit even if things aren't actually any better yet. Would be great if you had a snapshot of your life ten years from now. Maybe you will have found your soulmate! Crazy in love, your best friend for life! Feeling so blessed because you remember how you felt now! And are astonished that your life turned out so great! If only we could look through time and see that! But, we only have now, the present moment. We can let circumstances rule our thoughts (l have done plenty of that) or we can put the past behind us and try to make a plan for climbing out of the emotional pain we are enduring. I came here to this place a few days ago for that very reason. The fact that you too, reached out for help is huge! I'm an old man, almost 70, if you were nearby l would hug you warmly as a grandfather might, and just tell you things will get better. That you are worth SO much. Don't let your success in this world or lack thereof affect the fact that you are a unique human with SO much potential! There is nobody like you! Someday you might become a psychologist who helps hundreds of people to pull out of despair because you have been there! You have a unique understanding of feeling worthless. I know you realize you are NOT in actuality wothless, of zero value, but as a normal human being, it doesn't stop you from feeling that way! Right! And people that don't seek help, we read of them all the time. Believing that "un-aliving" themselves is the only answer. It's at epidemic proportions in our country. You are wiser than that, l can tell! Thank God! Things will finally get better, wayyy better. You have to endure until that day comes and it will...maybe slowly, in increments, or maybe all at once with some great thing you never saw coming! You seem like a sweetheart. If l could take your pain upon myself, l would in a heartbeat. But l can't. I can only love you from afar, and pray for you every morning! That God will strengthen you and keep giving you the courage to endure and listen to the wise people l see on this site telling you how much you ARE worth! I imagine any of us would push you out of the way of a speeding car even if it meant we might die! Especially if we are older than you! You likely have an incredible life ahead of you! It will get here! Remember that always! Love you fake granddaughter! Ha

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