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Is love even real ?

User Profile: IssabellaLee
IssabellaLee May 18th

Have anyone ever found true love or love is a lie its only brain chemicals? My ex husband cheated on me after 15 years of marriage he claims he fell out of love so its weird maybe its just brain chemical out of lust which is temporary.He wasted my youbg years now I m old he left me for a young girl so yes its all lust love is a lie

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 May 18th

@IssabellaLee

          I do not think love is a lie or just a temporary chemistry thing. although I can see how many can feel that way.  Lust is often mistaken for love or people tell themselves they feel more then they do. 

      I feel love is real, what is fake is all the false ideas and thoughts people have about it. It seems like forever people described love with wrong messages from book or movies and such that love is unbreakable and lasts forever with no effort etc or we only have one. It is more fragile than we think.  Time spent does not make it less fragile. 

      No words can take away pain or your anger at being betrayed. it does not have an on / off switch that makes your feelings go away. I feel that is why so many question if what they had was real because it shattered. 

User Profile: raphael86
raphael86 May 18th

I'm so sorry to hear that 💙

Sending hugs 💙 you deserve them