Just need someone to talk to and relate wirh
Going through my 3rd divorce. Seems like I can’t make very good choices in my relationships. I struggle with abandonment and being alone. I absolutely hate it. I seek validation from others and get rejected and it drives me nuts. How do you calm this demon?
@Nellie1991
I can understand the abandonment and being alone feeling. I used to go to CoDa (for co dependency) I believe that self love comes first and with that, you need to love you and things can fall into place.... everything you need is in you, remember you are strong, independent, and you rely on you first, then others 😊
Thanks for that. I am learning that I am all I need in most cases. Bad habits of constantly relying on others and being failed you’d think I wouldn’t be so susceptible to attachment .
@Nellie1991 Hello, I am sorry you had to go through that. I am proud of you for having the courage to open up about your struggles, I assure you that this is a safe space. You don't have to blame yourself. Sometimes the circumstances are unfavourable and out of our hands, all we can do is stay strong and heal as time passes by. If you wish to connect with someone to validate your emotions or simply a casual chat, feel free to browse and connect with listeners using this link. Take good care. Sending positive energy your way.
