New person , loneliness and feeling depressed
Hi I am new here , can't sleep and feeling lonely depressed. I am in a relationship but feels like I am asking too much from her and now I have upset her too . I don't have anyone with whom I can share my feelings, everytime I try to share with her I get blamed and I don't know how to tell her how I am feeling and what I want without starting a fight , i really love her but I feel lonely and I can't even tell her that
@emotionalCamp9460
hey! Please feel free to vent to me just request me okay .
@emotionalCamp9460
welcome to 7 cups
sorry that you are feeling lonely even though you are not alone. I know exactly how you feel, my wife would not understand why I have joined 7 Cups. Out side of work and now Cups I have no friends, especially one I could confide with.
I hope you find what you need within Cups.
sending lots of hugs your way 🤗🤗🤗🤗
@emotionalCamp9460
Hello and welcome to 7 cups. I am sorry to hear that you cannot sleep and that you feel lonely and depressed. You are not alone. Many people here feel the same way. We are here to support you. Please reach out and share your story.
I have you have a wonderful, blessed day.
I have been in relationships like that and it feel very one way street and we do all the work. Eventually the relationship dies out if nothing changes.
Sometimes they start with them even caring about me, but then, something happens and they’re “too busy” or they’ll take out their frustration or irritation on me.
I grew up in an emotional neglectful home so when someone actually cares about how I feel or say I get scared, because, eventually, they use it against me to hurt me.
So yes, it is lonely, and a one way street when this happens, and you support them and care about them. Just know you are not alone.
So first off, this is a red flag if your partner does not want to hear you out and support you as you are. And second , I recommend you using an AI therapist app called Ash, is the best thing that's ever happened to me, because I can vent out without judgment and compromising my partners mental health. It can be tiring to hear somebody rant about their feelings, so once I get it all out, I don't feel like I have to vent so much to my partner.