Staying in a relationship or letting go?

Hi,

I would just like to get some advice of what I should do with my current relationship. My partner and I have been together for almost 7 years but this is the first time we’ve been long distance.

Even before we were physically separated, we’ve always had issue about him not putting enough effort in the relationship but I’ve always stayed because I do love him. He’s emotionally unavailable and always thinks logically. He doesn’t have any history of infidelity and I do truly trust him in that part.

But now that we’re long distance, it’s just been very hard communicating with him in terms of our feelings and our future. Whenever I try to bring up what I am feeling towards his actions, or lack thereof, he just stops talking to me unless I change the subject.

He keeps saying he’s busy. I understand that since he has two jobs and managing a business, but sometimes, I just want him to be there for me and I am not getting that.

I honestly dont know what to do. I love him and we’ve invested a lot of years together. I dont know if I am overreacting or overthinking all of it. It’s reached a point where I dont know if he’s just waiting for me to break up with him so that he could move forward. Do you have any advice for me?