Tired
hey guys last few months to year i just been feeling tired of everything hoping to bounce back to how i used be soon
@SlimeVerse What you say begs a lot of questions. Tired as in lethargic? Emotionally burnt out? How is your diet and sleep schedule? Do you waste your energy on things that don't serve you positively? A year is a long time to be confused about being tired of everything. If you had the possibility, what would you choose to do that you think would make you the happiest?
more emotional and mentally burnt out it’s been more my personal relationship and family relationship and dealing with they expectations on top of just how hard life is on daily basis , and honestly if both sides my girl and my family was happy that make me happy but every choice i make seems to upset one of them in someway
Sounds like the people and energy might be draining you. I used to live for the happiness of others because I care so much that I would sacrifice my emotional realm to benefit those I love. Although kind, it is unhealthy to commit all your love without boundaries.
If I could recommend something I would suggest living more for yourself and with giving yourself more permission to set boundaries for feelings.
Over extension and burn out will cause your view of the world to become distorted and you and those you care about will suffer as well. Take care of yourself first and those that are around you will be taken care of through that. Best of luck to you.
thank you that means a lot💙 i’m try little day day it’s hard to change how i been since i was young
@SlimeVerse
Sometimes a little day by day is good enough. You are doing a great job if that's that case! What you're going through now seems like it might be the roughest time but it's hard to see progress when you're in the middle of the storm. Stay true to yourself and you will look back on these days not as the ones that broke you but the ones that built the strength inside of you to show others what strength looks like. Blessings to you.
I'm in a similar life situation and mindset. As since 3 years father and husband, it got harder for me to get boundaries with my inner peace as I try to provide a lot of them and my family but it's sometimes to much at once and to fast
I hope u become ur truest self