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Why am I the only submissive person around

User Profile: fearlessLake3608
fearlessLake3608 November 13th, 2023

Everyone else seems stubborn until they get their way, they are free to act, free to choose but I just go with what anyone tells me, still thats not enough for them, everyone says im somehow defying them or being ungrateful. I can not speak up for myself or do things my way bc its always "against the rules" im in a financial rut right now and people have no mercy. It feels exahusting to argue with these ***. Taking what i have a right to feels like its not worth the energy drain or embarrassement that it causes. I get discriminated against and my human rights taken away daily but when i ask the people in authority for help, they say "not my problem".

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 November 15th, 2023

@fearlessLake3608

do you speak up for someone else in support or defense ?  If so you need to see yourself as your best friend the submissive types will always be ignored or told things that may not be true because they see you will not stand your ground... 

some are told in order to get along to not make waves and go along but in the end you never get your way... you always do things that others want ... it takes time to build slowly the respect you should receive.