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User Profile: Sindaferp1
Sindaferp1 February 27th, 2025

I put up 4 looking for listener chats so far I've had 2 accept and just not respond and 1 say male? And when I said yes block me and the other after I explained my issue say "so what's the problem" like I didn't just explain what was bothering me

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User Profile: Remina
Remina February 27th, 2025

@Sindaferp1

I am sorry to hear about your experiences at trying to find a listener. What's the topic you were trying to get support in? Maybe if you share a bit in the forums, a listener might see it and want to take you on to support you. Also, I recommend trying to connect with Verified Listeners, if you're not already doing that. You can do that by updating the search parameters to include only verified listeners.

User Profile: PeacefulPathfinder
PeacefulPathfinder February 27th, 2025

@Sindaferp1

Oh no, I'm so sorry that happened to you, but from personal experience I can say that the wifi is sometimes bad, and the website can crash out on listeners and users. But I still don't think any listener should have done that, I hope your experience turns out better with other listeners. 

User Profile: batgirl1234
batgirl1234 February 27th, 2025

I guess one listener should write they do not want male speakers?


Perhaps due to their own stuff, or what some males share they do not want?


Sounds like a poor fit.


I would try another listener. I’m sorry to read of the issues you are having finding a good listener.

User Profile: mschelz
mschelz February 28th, 2025

That has happened to me as well. I state what is going on and then no reply. I stopped trying.