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User Profile: decisiveBanana7177
decisiveBanana7177 May 24th, 2023

HI I'm wondering what to do I just recently came out and all my friends started leaving me out of things and slowly pushing me away I'm wondering what I should do or what I should say to them because ik they don't support me and all that but I still wish to be friends with them

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 May 25th, 2023

@decisiveBanana7177

Sometimes when a person reveals things about themselves ( like coming out etc) some people are not sure what to say or how to react ........ IMO this is OFTEN interpreted as disapproval.

Maybe they are nervous about if they say the wrong thing or how this may change things ..... be honest tell them it does not effect your friendship and you can and want to hang out with them still.

When you say you know they disapprove did they say that to you?


User Profile: SinyaLuna
SinyaLuna May 25th, 2023

I'm very sorry you're going through this. And I'm sorry but those people are not good for you. I understand how hard it can be to have friends that you wish you still were with but they don't want you back, believe me I'm going through the same thing now. But they are not the people for you. If they are so shallow to not want to hang out with you because of your identity then they are not worth it. It's hard to live through that i know but there is a light at the end. You'll meet people who will always accept you no matter what