What Do You Like About Yourself? ♡
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Hey hey lovely people coming across! I hope the new year is treating everyone well so far! Here's a hope, it gets only better for us!🌻
Sooooo, are you someone who finds it hard to compliment themselves? Or hard to even accept a compliment from someone else?
If you are one, I'd like to assure you, you aren't alone!
It is kinda unfair how schools don't teach us how to be kind to ourselves, how to love ourselves, how to accept compliments, how to express ourselves and sometimes even, how to be ourselves! All these years of education for what :P
But anyway, what someone else cannot teach us, we can learn or atleast try to teach ourselves, always at our pace though!
But Sunnnnnn, how to do it, it's haaaaaarddddd lol ~ oh yes, sun knows and sun agrees and sun relates! But sun is rooting for you! 🤗
Sooo, I came across something like an outside perspective, because sure, we cannot do it for ourselves often, we'd be hesitant in trusting a loved one because again, they could be biased but how about an absolute stranger? They don't know us, they don't see us as we do, they see us as we *are* and so there's a chance they don't have any reason to lie, or sugarcoat.
There is always something about you to be admired. Try to imagine what a stranger would think about you from a neutral, unbiased, unfiltered opinion.
You have qualities to admire, even if you’re self-conscious about yourself, or simply hesitant to accept it. Look at yourself like you would anyone else, and realize how amazing you are. Just The Way You Are ( oh yes, Bruno Mars fans, where y'all at👀 )
Nowww did everyone get it already, or need I say more xD
Green signal to everyone, tell us what is something, anything that you like about yourself, it can be something about your physical appearance, a quality you have, something you feel you are good at, something you achieved and are proud for, literally anything counts here!
Just deep breaths in, deep breaths out, clear ya mind and tell your anxiety it is lying ~ you do have something worth *your* liking, all you need is to acknowledge, accept and appreciate it! And so I hope, saying it here, helps in someway!
Andddd ofcourse, please feel free to tag fellow cupsers to participate as well!
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One thing I like about myself is how dedicated I am. I like to follow things through and for the most part, I do not give up easily. I push myself to keep going even when it would be easier to give up.
@helpfulSunrise8116 Super proud of you for pushing through. ❤
@Sunisshiningandsoareyou hello i loved this thread and i loved the words you used. very uplifting
Aw thankyou so much, @izzy8991, consider my day is made to hear it! ❤
My heart beat fast when I run
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I like that I was able to help my girlfriend and her enemy become friends again. I don't know if that counts but I like that about myself.
Hey @SanrioHelloKitty, it definitely counts! I find it a very considerate gesture on your part, to try and diffuse the conflicts and animosity between them and to turn things around in a positive manner. Safe to say, it counts more than enough! *offer to pat your back* ❤
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Thank you ! <3 :)
That i can put on a smile and bounce back, no matter how low life gets. Prolly, the smile-iest and happiest guy in the world.
Aww I am certainly smiling reading this, so hey hey, you're perhaps not just the smiliest and happiest person but also someone who make others smile and feel good too, smiles are contagious they say, my friend! Keep smiling and making others around smile too! It's one of the most random act of kindness hehe! ❤ @raspberryNest1319
@Sunisshiningandsoareyou Something I like about myself is I'm loving and I care a lot.
I Iove these qualities in a human being! Super amazing! May you receive all the love and care back alwaysss! ❤ Thankyou for sharing, @kiararoyle2005 .
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I like how confident I am in myself!
Woohoo @Alison1111, being confident in yourself is worth a big mention in the "what do I like about myself" list, keep it up, lovely! ❤
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uhmmmn, if i had to pick something, i'd say i try to be as understanding as i possibly can.
I always tend to overthink everything, so i end up being considerate of every single perspective.
@AikooStargazed Hehe that's a plus for being an overthinker right?! I relate also, lots of understanding, consideration and thoughtfulness comes from deep thinking and it's an amazing trait for sure. Be youuu!❤
I would say the ability to look after others is outstanding from another person’s view (though this can turn into self-sacrificing, :oooo). Other than that, the thing I most admire about myself is my thick eyebrows, and my writing ability 😂😂😂 I feel like I sound like a more cheerful, more socially-accepted Morrissey 😆 oh bless, at least I’m like my childhood hero!
I guess another thing is my compassion even for the most disliked people, like Courtney Love also. I believe everyone should be happy and successful in doing good.
I recently came across someone describing the "feel" of a song and it is very similar to how I feel about myself. It sort of fits here (though how it does may not be obvious).
Our home is on fire.. but hey, at least the flames are pretty.