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What Do You Like About Yourself? ♡

User Profile: Sunisshiningandsoareyou
Sunisshiningandsoareyou January 9th, 2022

Hey hey lovely people coming across! I hope the new year is treating everyone well so far! Here's a hope, it gets only better for us!🌻

Sooooo, are you someone who finds it hard to compliment themselves? Or hard to even accept a compliment from someone else?

If you are one, I'd like to assure you, you aren't alone!

It is kinda unfair how schools don't teach us how to be kind to ourselves, how to love ourselves, how to accept compliments, how to express ourselves and sometimes even, how to be ourselves! All these years of education for what :P

But anyway, what someone else cannot teach us, we can learn or atleast try to teach ourselves, always at our pace though!

But Sunnnnnn, how to do it, it's haaaaaarddddd lol ~ oh yes, sun knows and sun agrees and sun relates! But sun is rooting for you! 🤗

Sooo, I came across something like an outside perspective, because sure, we cannot do it for ourselves often, we'd be hesitant in trusting a loved one because again, they could be biased but how about an absolute stranger? They don't know us, they don't see us as we do, they see us as we *are* and so there's a chance they don't have any reason to lie, or sugarcoat.

There is always something about you to be admired. Try to imagine what a stranger would think about you from a neutral, unbiased, unfiltered opinion.

You have qualities to admire, even if you’re self-conscious about yourself, or simply hesitant to accept it. Look at yourself like you would anyone else, and realize how amazing you are. Just The Way You Are ( oh yes, Bruno Mars fans, where y'all at👀 )

Nowww did everyone get it already, or need I say more xD

Green signal to everyone, tell us what is something, anything that you like about yourself, it can be something about your physical appearance, a quality you have, something you feel you are good at, something you achieved and are proud for, literally anything counts here!

Just deep breaths in, deep breaths out, clear ya mind and tell your anxiety it is lying ~ you do have something worth *your* liking, all you need is to acknowledge, accept and appreciate it! And so I hope, saying it here, helps in someway!

Andddd ofcourse, please feel free to tag fellow cupsers to participate as well!

✨ Please feel welcome to Appreciate your forever #1 via the Peer Appreciation form anytime. ✨

(Blue text is usually clickable in my posts lol, try it out😛)

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User Profile: Qitra
Qitra January 30th, 2022

What I love is how unique my experience is and the different perspectives I can offer. Despite moving to different countries every once in a while and having to adjust, it also has its benefits ☺️

User Profile: GlowJellyfish
GlowJellyfish January 30th, 2022

ahh i like this question! personally i like that i enjoy helping people, i want to support anyone who needs support and my curiosity about the world around me,

User Profile: littleMelon7007
littleMelon7007 January 30th, 2022

What I like about myself is Im easy person to get along with and I thrive on competition. I have moral and codes I live by some codes come from the bible and other literature. Im here looking for connection like friends Im a married man with kids and my marriage is a decline.

User Profile: giggleSummer7806
giggleSummer7806 January 31st, 2022

A thing i like about my self is i put my myself in other shoes to understand them little batter

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User Profile: Sunisshiningandsoareyou
Sunisshiningandsoareyou OP May 7th, 2022
Hey @giggleSummer7806, empathy is one of the most beautiful skills one could ever have, I feel. You're wonderful for taking the time to understand and empathize with people. ❤
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February 1st, 2022

What I like about myself is, I'm always nice to everyone no matter what.

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User Profile: Sunisshiningandsoareyou
Sunisshiningandsoareyou OP May 7th, 2022
Hey @Readinggirl2, being nice to everyone is a great quality to have. Sometimes being nice doesn't come easy, I understand but I'm really proud of you for keeping up with it despite the circumstances. We gotta try always hehe. ❤ I sure do hope your niceness is always returned hundred fold to you.
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User Profile: BeautifulSun298501
BeautifulSun298501 February 4th, 2022

@Sunisshiningandsoareyou

Hello! Something I like about myself is my tendency to appreciate the small things. It makes me happy to feel good about the things and the people around me, especially when what is going on for me is not helping me emotionally.

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User Profile: Sunisshiningandsoareyou
Sunisshiningandsoareyou OP December 29th, 2022

@BeautifulSun298501

Small things cease to be small when we pay attention to them.🥰 I love it when someone takes time to notice the not-easily-noticeable things!

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User Profile: Badwolf84
Badwolf84 February 4th, 2022

I think that i'm funny and I make people laugh and smile 😂

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User Profile: Sunisshiningandsoareyou
Sunisshiningandsoareyou OP May 7th, 2022
Hehe that emoji made me smile too, it'sawesome to have people who are funny and cheerful around like you, @Badwolf84 ❤ keep smiling and making other smile too.
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User Profile: Sosoberry
Sosoberry February 5th, 2022

Great topic! I like that I can be warm and supportive to family & friends no matter what and not let stressful situations get to me.

User Profile: KindKoala33
KindKoala33 February 6th, 2022

I like my perseverance and determination to accomplish what I set my mind to even when things get hard.

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User Profile: Sunisshiningandsoareyou
Sunisshiningandsoareyou OP April 11th, 2023

@KindKoala33 Perseverance, Determination, Strong willpower. Koality traits to have! Way to go, you!💛

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User Profile: creativeField7705
creativeField7705 February 22nd, 2022

got me thinking.

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User Profile: Sunisshiningandsoareyou
Sunisshiningandsoareyou OP May 7th, 2022
Hello @creativeField7705, im glad this got you to thinking, and I hope you're able to *see* something good within you. As far as I've observed from group chats, you've been always wonderful at communicating with people. ❤
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