What are your goals in life?
7cups offers a lot and shapes you to be a better person. With the support of 7cups, what would you like to achieve in life?
Generally speaking, people who i interact with everyday seem to have one question that always comes up? why isn't he giving me attention? why isn't he loving me? or showing me affection? or buying me this and that... when you have such questions, you really have to look deep within.. what is the underlying issue... HOW CAN SOMEONE LOVE YOU IF YOU DON'T LOVE YOURSELF? People tend to settle for less because they feel they deserve that but i think it's very important to love yourself and set your standards high so that you attract the same type of people who have real appreciation for you. IF YOU ARE KIND TO OTHERS, WHY CAN'T YOU BE KIND TO YOURSELF? it's not crazy to remind yourself how beautiful you are, or to splurge on yourself once in awhile, and put your needs before others. YOU SHOULD NEVER NEED A MAN/WOMAN to validate your worth because you are worthy, you have a purpose and slowly as life goes on YOU WILL figure out your purpose in this world! BUT IF YOU DON'T love yourself you will always look to the wrong people to fill that void! You will love yourself more, when you take better care of your basic needs. People high in self-love nourish themselves daily through healthy activities, like sound nutrition, exercise, proper sleep, intimacy and healthy social interactions. DON'T BE SCARED TO SAY NO! WHEN SOMETHING WILL CAUSE YOU HARM JUST TO PLEASE SOMEONE ELSE! Some people just don't deserve to be in your life, they are not worth your time, get rid of those people, because some people are just their to use you, they're only loyal when they need something, but once their needs are met so are their loyalty! SURROUND yourself with people who encourage you and bring out the best in you. And MOST IMPORTANT, FORGIVE YOURSELF LIKE YOU WOULD FORGIVE THE ONES YOU LOVE, WE ARE HUMANS! WE ARE NOT PERFECT WE MAKE MISTAKES, MISTAKES ARE ONLY LESSONS LEARNED! You have to accept your humanness (the fact that you are not perfect), before you can truly love yourself. Practice being less hard on yourself when you make a mistake. Remember, there are no failures, if you have learned and grown from your mistakes; there are only lessons learned. SO MAKE THE CHOICE TODAY AND LOVE YOURSELF AND SEE HOW THE QUALITY OF YOUR LIFE WILL IMPROVE
@ScenicVision You possess beauty as you write, your story is magical and it flourishes its meaning like the peaceful nature. You're an incredible person and your words speak for itself. I am very glad to have come across the powerful message as that will surely benefit me and many others. ~Love yourself. Thank you so much!
@ScenicVision
Thank you, Nice post... the post has so much for me to learn and practice :)
I will visit and see the following sights:
Disneyworld
Epcott Center
The Eiffel Tower
The Vatican
The Great Wall of China
The Taj Mahal
The Great Pyramids
Machu Pichu
The Terracotta Soldiers of Xian, China
@Logan1984 That is an incredible goal and I am sure it will be very fun! Hard work always pays off! Remember to also enjoy the present time as you work towards your goal! All the very best! :)
To be the best I possibly can 
@HarveyM :) That's amazing! But dont be too hard on yourself, remember, we all arent perfect but we can be the best we can be if we choose to be the best in ourselves and not among others. All the very best to you :)
@Dazzle28purvi
thats aim, to be myself but the best of myself :)
@HarveyM All the best ^^
Succeed, both happiness and doing well.
And improve. I always want to be better and make myself better, I hope I always have that mindset
@CassieThePeach Surround yourself with anything that enlightens you and never forget that there will always be challenges to make you a better 'you'. All the very best to you and you will gradually have the mindset you want as long as you practice slowly, taking baby steps! :)
@CassieThePeach
Hey. Welcome to 7cups. If you feel like talking to someone you can always PM me :)
To leave this world a little better than how I found it.
To create good art: play music, write a book, sing and dream.
To do less harm to the environment, to other species, to the world.
To know with complete certainty that I belong and to know that I deserve to belong.
@littleWater7718 You certainly can do it! I cant wait for your book to come out! :) All the best to you
@Dazzle28purvi
Thank you for your kindness. :)
I would like to become a more empathetic, supportive and understanding person. With the help of 7 cups I am able to understand on a deeper level the things people feel and go through and improve my listening skills. 7 cups has taught me so much when it comes to being a more open-minded and understanding person. Everyone goes through tough times and my goal in life is to spread as much positivity and give as much as I possibly can (while of course, and most importantly, taking care of myself)
@phi123 That was a beautifully written answer! I am glad to know how 7 cups has helped you and how you aim to strive for greater things! :) All the best to you!
My goal in life is to love and be loved taking every day as it comes .
@BeyondTheSun Love comes in any form. It is pure and beautiful! All the best :)
To make a change in this world. To help people chase their dreams :D
@Rugz007 That's amazing! All the best :)
To open my own psychology practise
@calmwaves9707 Very interesting! And to publish your work? :) All the best
To be learn more as a person, from both good and bad experiences. To progress my knowledge, of the world and myself. To help others, be there for those who need support.
@Ciaran1 Life is all about challenges that we can overcome and gain so much from. They may break you but it will never break your will and strength to get back onto your feet! All the best :)
