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Why it's important to welcome new friends to 7 Cups

User Profile: Laura
Laura January 27th, 2017

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Have you ever walked into a party and nobody said hi to you? You walked around the room, trying to make eye contact, just looking for a friendly face to connect with?

Weve all experienced this at some point. It is a very isolating and uncomfortable feeling. sadsurprisefrowncrying

Now, lets replay this same situation one more time but this time imagine you walked into the party and someone came up to you right away and said, hello, welcome to the group, we are really happy you joined us. What would this feel like?

You would smile and feel like you are wanted. smileyheartlaughcheeky

Being brand new to a group is always little scary. When we enter into a new place or group, we are outsiders and we dont know what to expect. These scary feelings can be compounded by the fact that people come to 7 Cups for the purpose of receiving support for a personal challenge. They may already be isolated or in pain.

One of 7 Cups core values is to create a welcoming and safe environment for all people to join in. When people feel welcome and included, they feel safe. When they feel safe, they are able to explore the new space or group with ease. They are able to open up to their listener or therapist with more sincerity. In essence they are able to get higher quality support.

Many of you have already started helping us welcome new members to the community! We are so thankful for your contributions and we encourage you to keep up the great work!!

But we still need more help in this initiative.

Here are the simple steps you can take to get involved (both listeners & members welcome):

Step 1: Check out this project intro thread to review welcome message templates & how to log your welcomes for bonus cheers/ growth points (members learn how to get get involved here & listeners check out this thread)

Step 2: Start Welcoming new members & log your work in this thread!!!

Step 3: Fill up this form to earn cheers for you work!


Are you willing to give members the gift of a friendly welcome? Hooray! Post to this thread and let us know youll be joining the team!

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User Profile: Isaac
Isaac January 27th, 2017

Lovely post Laura! Thank you so much for this!
@Laura

User Profile: Anggi
Anggi January 28th, 2017

This is an important reminder :D

User Profile: rebel11
rebel11 January 28th, 2017

@Laura Great another inititive, what happened to the 'meet & greet' members?, were they ever appointed?

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User Profile: Laura
Laura OP January 30th, 2017

@rebel11

Hey there! this is not a new iniative. Just another reason to get involved in a current project :)

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User Profile: rebel11
rebel11 February 8th, 2017

@Laura

From your response I take it that the 'meet & greet' members initiative never took off. That was a very good initiative.

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User Profile: farleyknight
farleyknight January 28th, 2017

Hi everyone. New here. Not sure what to say.

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User Profile: Isaac
Isaac January 28th, 2017

Welcome to 7 Cups, Farley!!

@farleyknight

User Profile: Jack
Jack March 28th, 2017

@farleyknight

Welcome to 7 Cups!

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User Profile: conscientiousPineapple1782
conscientiousPineapple1782 January 29th, 2017

@Laura

Hi ^^/ . Hope you like it here...Most people here are nice [just ignore others ;) ].

User Profile: Jack
Jack January 29th, 2017

Nice idea, I hope lots of people with the time sign up! smiley

User Profile: littlepony
littlepony January 29th, 2017

@Laura what an amazing post !!!!

User Profile: Reececup1986
Reececup1986 January 30th, 2017

@Laura

Thanks you for leting me part of the group and Thank you for the E-mail.. I cant wait to welcome more members to the 7 Cups.

I only have one issues, when welcomeing a member or guest I get pulled into chats and get side tracked on Welcomeing other membes. Who can I fix it to let the Members know I am just welcoming them to 7 Cups and not get pulled into a Request for an Listener

January 31st, 2017

Trying to stay in a balance with being bipolar

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User Profile: Glencoco1
Glencoco1 January 31st, 2017

@lesliekay62 I have just joined for the same reason. I am happy to talk with you if ever you need support or advice from someone of a similar circumstance. Good luck!

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January 31st, 2017

@Glencoco1I look forward to it

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User Profile: CrystaDLCSW22
CrystaDLCSW22 January 31st, 2017

Hello @lesliekay62! Welcome :) I am a therapist here at 7cups but I cannot say enough good things about the Listeners and Members I have come across! Hope yu feel comfortable diving into the community!

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January 31st, 2017

Anyone wanna be friends im 13 looking for friends 12-16 . reply if interested 💞

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February 1st, 2017

@Simba100

I'm always down for new friends. I'm fifteen and about to sixteen. If we have anything in common I'd love to have a conversation.

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February 1st, 2017

@affableScarf perfect. 💙Let's talk sometime.

[Edited by Forum Moderator: "@Jack". Edited out social media]

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February 1st, 2017

@Simba100 I don't have a kick at the moment but I could always get one.

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February 1st, 2017

@affableScarf thatd be great 💜

User Profile: Jack
Jack March 28th, 2017

@affableScarf

Please note guys that it is against the site rules to share off-site contact, such as social media.

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March 28th, 2017

@Jack

Oh, thanks. I'm sorry.

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User Profile: Jack
Jack March 28th, 2017

@affableScarf

No problem! Mistakes happen. smiley

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User Profile: Chloe0987
Chloe0987 February 1st, 2017

@Simba100 hiya can I still apply to be your friend 😂

User Profile: yuliya
yuliya February 2nd, 2017

@Simba100 hello~ i'm 15 and we can have a conversation!

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February 2nd, 2017

@yuliya yeah ! Kik or insta?

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User Profile: Notthatsmart247
Notthatsmart247 February 2nd, 2017

@Simba100 I'm here actually turning 14 this Saturday I don't have Kik but maybe I could get it

Let me know

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February 2nd, 2017

@Notthatsmart247 It would be great to be friends.

[Edited by Forum Moderator: "@Jack". Edited out social media]

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User Profile: Jack
Jack March 28th, 2017

@Simba100

Please note it is against site rules to share off-site contact, such as social media.

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