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@VictoriaJayneRose

Hello and welcome.

This is my favorite place to be.

I have learned over the last year these things...
Follow the guidelines and they will protect you
and you'll know what to do
and how to stay out of trouble.

Avoid the Drama Triangle and take good self-care.

Drama
Triangle

This guy explains how to get unstuck from the drama triangle really well using empowerment triangle and other things
https://youtu.be/uAFZa2Iyp3o
FYI - NO DRAGONS WERE HARMED IN THE VIDEO!

Find your safe niche here to make things the most comfortable.
Find the best ways you can be most helpful for others and you too.
Enjoy the "helpers high" and (aka effects of helper theory).

And remember we don't give advice here...

"Ultimately, people change when they are ready to change.

Our job as Listeners is to basically show care, support, listen,
and nurture that motivation to change.

Simply caring will help awaken or help uncover the strength to start the change process."

- Paraphrased from Glen

You can ask your Listener Questions in at least 3 different places (there are others too):

1) at this link https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/QuestionsFeedback_1201/

2) you can click on the (?) BUTTON on the Chat Screen to get to the Listener Support Room and ask there

3) you can get a Listener MENTOR per your Listener training and ask them

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